The Strap-On-Me Leatherette Harness Desirous by Lovely Planet is a vegan-friendly strap-on harness crafted from PU leatherette, offering the bold aesthetic of traditional leather without any animal-derived materials. Designed for confident, secure wear during strap-on play, the Desirous harness is built to hold a compatible dildo firmly in place so you can focus entirely on the experience. Its leatherette construction gives it a sleek, supple feel while remaining easy to wipe clean between sessions.

Strap-On-Me Leatherette Harness Desirous features:

• Vegan PU leatherette construction — no animal materials used
• Secure harness design engineered to hold a compatible strap-on dildo in place during use
• Adjustable straps for a customisable, comfortable fit across a range of body types
• Sleek leatherette aesthetic with the look and feel of traditional leather
• Easy-to-clean surface suitable for regular use
• From the Lovely Planet brand, part of the Strap-On-Me collection

Specifications / Size & material

• Brand: Lovely Planet (Strap-On-Me)
• Category: Strap-on Harnesses — Vegan PU Leather
• Material: Vegan PU leatherette (no animal-derived components)
• Body safety: PU leatherette is non-porous and latex-free; compatible with most water-based and silicone-based lubricants on the harness material itself
• Price: $69.99

Intensity & Experience Level

Level: Beginner to Intermediate — Sensation tag: Restrictive / Penetrative control

The Desirous harness is approachable enough for first-time strap-on users thanks to its adjustable fit, while its secure hold and leatherette finish will satisfy those with more experience who want a reliable, aesthetically pleasing harness. The adjustable straps make dialling in comfort straightforward, reducing the learning curve considerably.

Who is this product for?

• First-time strap-on wearers: those exploring pegging, same-sex partnered play, or role reversal for the first time who need a forgiving, adjustable harness.
• Vegan and animal-free shoppers: anyone who wants the leather look and feel without using animal products.
• Couples exploring role play: partners who want to introduce strap-on dynamics into their scenes with a harness that looks as good as it performs.
• Dom/Domme identifying players: those who want a harness that communicates authority and control through its sleek leatherette appearance.
• Experienced strap-on users: those looking for a quality everyday harness that balances aesthetics, adjustability, and ease of care.

How to use the Strap-On-Me Leatherette Harness Desirous?

1. Choose a compatible dildo: Select a strap-on-compatible dildo with a flared base that fits the harness O-ring securely before beginning.
2. Prepare the harness: Loosen all adjustable straps fully so the harness is easy to step into or pull on.
3. Put on the harness: Step into the harness and position it comfortably against your body, centring the O-ring at the front.
4. Insert the dildo: Thread the dildo's base through the O-ring so it sits flush and stable against the harness panel.
5. Adjust the straps: Tighten each strap gradually and evenly until the harness feels secure but not constricting — you should be able to slip two fingers under any strap.
6. Comfort checkpoint: Walk around briefly and check that there is no pinching, chafing, or pressure on any bony areas. Readjust as needed before proceeding.
7. Apply lubricant: Apply a generous amount of body-safe lubricant to the dildo before any penetrative use.
8. During use: Communicate openly with your partner throughout the session, checking in on comfort and sensation regularly.
9. Stop and release: To end the scene, loosen the straps fully before removing the harness. Remove the dildo from the O-ring and set aside for cleaning.

Techniques & ways to play

• Solo confidence building: Wear the harness alone to get comfortable with the fit, movement, and weight distribution before introducing a partner.
• Partnered pegging: The wearing partner takes an active penetrating role, exploring depth, angle, and rhythm in collaboration with their receiving partner.
• Mutual strap-on play: Both partners can take turns wearing the harness, alternating roles within the same session for an equalising dynamic.
• Role reversal scenes: Incorporate the harness into a wider power-exchange scene where the wearer takes on a dominant role and the receiving partner surrenders control.
• Dom/sub dynamic: The Dom/Domme wearer holds physical and psychological control through the act of penetration; always negotiate the scene, boundaries, and a safeword clearly before escalating intensity.

Pairs well with / Complete the scene

• Compatible strap-on dildos: Pair with any flared-base, O-ring compatible dildo from the Strap-On-Me dildo range for a matched, reliable setup.
• Water-based lubricant: A quality water-based lubricant is essential for comfortable penetration and is safe on all harness and dildo materials.
• Silicone-based lubricant: Suitable for use on the leatherette harness itself; check dildo material compatibility before applying to silicone toys.
• Bondage restraints: Wrist or ankle cuffs complement the power-exchange element of strap-on play beautifully.
• Collections: Strap-On-Me collection by Lovely Planet; Vegan BDSM Gear collection at The BDSM Store.

How to clean and care

• Cleaning the harness: Wipe down all leatherette surfaces with a damp cloth and a mild, fragrance-free soap or a toy cleaner safe for PU materials. Do not submerge in water.
• Drying: Pat dry with a clean cloth and allow to air dry fully before storing. Avoid direct heat sources such as radiators or hair dryers.
• Lube compatibility: Water-based and silicone-based lubricants are both compatible with PU leatherette. Avoid oil-based lubricants as they can degrade PU materials over time.
• Storage: Store in a cool, dry place away from direct sunlight. Keep away from sharp objects that could scratch or pierce the leatherette surface. Store separately from silicone toys to prevent material interactions.
• Strap maintenance: Check all buckles and adjustment points periodically for signs of wear. Replace the harness if any structural component shows damage.

Additional information

• Vegan credentials: The PU leatherette construction makes this harness fully suitable for vegan and animal-free lifestyles without compromising on the classic leather aesthetic.
• Versatility: The adjustable strap system accommodates a wide range of body sizes and shapes, making the Desirous a versatile option for diverse users.
• Durability: PU leatherette is a resilient material that holds its shape and appearance well with proper care, offering long-term value at its price point.
• Accessibility: The straightforward buckle-and-strap design does not require complex fitting, making it accessible to users with varying levels of dexterity.

Special considerations / warnings

• Fit check before use: Always ensure the harness is properly adjusted and secure before beginning any activity to prevent unexpected movement or discomfort.
• O-ring compatibility: Only use dildos with a flared base that properly seats in the O-ring. An improperly fitted dildo can become dislodged during use.
• Lubrication: Never use the harness for penetrative play without adequate lubrication. Insufficient lubrication can cause discomfort or injury to the receiving partner.
• Inspect before each use: Check all stitching, buckles, and leatherette panels for signs of cracking, fraying, or damage before every session. Discontinue use if any damage is found.
• Hygiene: While the harness itself is wipeable, the dildo used with it must be cleaned and disinfected according to its own material guidelines after every use.
• Safeword protocol: Always establish a clear safeword or signal with your partner before engaging in any strap-on or power-exchange activity.
• 18+ only. For consensual adult use.