Collection: Prostate dildos

How do I choose the right prostate dildo for my experience level?

If you are new to prostate play, look for a slimmer toy with a gentle curve and a pronounced but not oversized head. A modest girth lets you relax into the sensation and locate the prostate, which sits roughly 5 to 8 centimetres inside toward the navel. More experienced players may prefer longer shafts, wider girths, or a more dramatic curve that targets the P-spot with greater intensity. Whatever your level, choose a toy with a flared base if you plan to use it anally without a harness, so it is always easy to retrieve.

What materials are body-safe for internal prostate use?

For any internal toy, prioritise non-porous, body-safe materials. The most recommended options are:

• Medical-grade silicone - soft, flexible, and easy to sterilise
• Borosilicate glass - firm, smooth, and compatible with temperature play
• Stainless steel - weighty, non-porous, and exceptionally durable

Avoid toys made from jelly, PVC, or anything labelled with vague terms like "soft rubber" or "realistic material" without further clarification, as these can harbour bacteria and may contain irritating chemicals.

What lubricant should I use with a prostate dildo?

The anal canal does not self-lubricate, so generous lubricant is essential for both comfort and safety. Use a thick, water-based lubricant with silicone toys, as silicone-based lubricants can degrade silicone toy surfaces over time. Glass and stainless steel toys are compatible with water-based, silicone-based, and hybrid formulas. Reapply lubricant throughout your session and never push through discomfort.

How should I negotiate prostate play within a power-exchange dynamic?

Open communication before any scene is fundamental. Discuss boundaries, desires, and hard limits with your partner or scene co-creator well in advance. Agree on a safeword or safe signal, particularly if the receiving partner may be restrained or otherwise unable to speak freely. Establish whether the dominant partner will control the pace and depth of stimulation or whether the submissive partner retains veto power over insertion at any point. Checking in during a scene is not a break in dynamic - it is skilled, responsible dominance and submission in practice.

How do I clean and store prostate dildos after use?

Cleaning method depends on material. Medical-grade silicone toys without electronic components can be boiled for three minutes or run through a dishwasher on the top rack without detergent. Glass and stainless steel can be sterilised the same way. For all materials, a thorough wash with warm water and unscented antibacterial soap is effective for routine cleaning. Rinse thoroughly to remove all soap residue. Store toys individually in a clean cloth pouch or the original packaging to prevent dust accumulation and material degradation from contact with other toys.