Strap-On-Me Leatherette Harness

The Strap-On-Me Leatherette Harness is a versatile, elegantly designed harness built for both comfort and adaptability. Adjustable straps at the waist and buttocks allow the harness to flatter a wide range of body types while providing full freedom of movement during use. The front panel features a double stretch silicone O-ring system secured by a snap button mechanism, making quick attachment and removal of the rings simple and reliable. The O-rings are compatible with a variety of flared-base dildos — including Strap-On-Me's own SOM collection — as well as most standard dildo bases. Constructed from 96% polyurethane, 1% silicone, and 3% metal, the leatherette build strikes a balance between structure and flexibility. The harness is backless in design, meaning it will not obstruct the use of Banana Pants dildo buffers and can be layered over underwear or a harness thong for additional comfort. Every harness ships with removable, flexible silicone O-rings in multiple sizes and a cotton storage pouch for discreet transport. Dildo not included.

Strap-On-Me Leatherette Harness features:

• Adjustable waist and buttock straps for a secure, customised fit
• Double stretch silicone O-ring system compatible with multiple dildo sizes
• Snap button system for quick attachment and removal of silicone rings
• Compatible with SOM's dildos and most standard flared-base dildo bases
• Backless design that does not obstruct Banana Pants dildo buffers
• Includes removable and flexible silicone O-rings in multiple sizes
• Comes with a cotton storage pouch for discreet and easy transport
• Dildo not included

Specifications / Size & material

• Waist sizing: Fits XS – XXL via adjustable straps
• Materials: 96% polyurethane, 1% silicone, 3% metal
• O-ring system: Double stretch silicone, snap button attachment
• Includes: Multiple interchangeable silicone O-rings, cotton storage pouch
• Body safety: Polyurethane (PU) leatherette exterior; silicone O-rings are body-safe, non-porous, and easy to clean

Intensity & Experience Level

Level: Beginner — Sensation: Restrictive / penetrative

The multi-point adjustable strap system and snap-button O-ring mechanism make this harness forgiving for first-time harness wearers. Setup is straightforward, and the wide size range means most people can achieve a comfortable, stable fit without prior experience. Those new to strap-on play are encouraged to practise wearing and adjusting the harness alone before partnered sessions.

Who is this product for?

• Couples exploring strap-on play: Ideal for pegging, role reversal, and power-play dynamics, offering a secure platform for confident thrusting.
• Trans and nonbinary individuals: Provides an affirming way to participate in penetrative sex; the backless cut and O-ring system also accommodate certain packers for all-day wear.
• People experiencing erectile challenges: Offers a reliable way to maintain intimacy and penetration for those navigating erectile difficulties, premature ejaculation, or ED.
• Individuals with limited grip or dexterity: The belt-and-strap system and snap buttons simplify dressing for users with reduced hand mobility.
• Anyone who values adjustability and inclusivity: The XS–XXL fit range and multi-point adjustment make it accessible across a wide spectrum of body types and sizes.

How to use the Strap-On-Me Leatherette Harness?

1. Choose your dildo: Select a dildo with a flared base that fits within the included interchangeable O-rings. The dildo is not included with the harness.
2. Warm the O-ring: Warm the silicone O-ring briefly with your hands for easier fitting, especially in cooler environments.
3. Attach the dildo: Snap the correctly sized silicone O-ring into place using the button system on the harness front, then slide the dildo through the ring until it sits securely.
4. Step into the harness: Step in or wrap the harness around your hips, then adjust the waist and buttock straps for a snug, supportive fit against your body.
5. Comfort checkpoint: Move around to ensure the harness does not shift, pinch, or feel too tight anywhere. If it wobbles, try the next O-ring size down for a snugger base fit.
6. Apply lubricant: Apply a thin layer of water-based lubricant to the dildo before penetration. Use sparingly — too much lube can cause the dildo to slip inside the O-ring — and reapply during play as needed.
7. Stop and release: To remove, unsnap the O-ring button to release the dildo, then loosen the waist and buttock straps and step out of the harness.

Techniques & ways to play

• Solo practice: Wear the harness alone before partnered play to get comfortable with adjusting the straps, feeling the fit, and mimicking thrusting motion.
• Doggy style: Classic rear-entry position that allows for deep, rhythmic thrusting and easy grip on the harness straps.
• Face-to-face (missionary): Adds intimacy through eye contact and kissing while allowing the wearer to control depth and pace.
• Chair straddle: The receiving partner sits while the harness wearer straddles for full control and close engagement.
• Buffer and packer pairing: Layer with a Banana Pants dildo buffer for added stimulation during long sessions, or pair with a compatible packer for all-day wear — the backless design accommodates both.
• Dom/sub dynamic: The harness wearer naturally holds positional control; negotiate roles, pace, and boundaries with your partner before play begins, and use a clear stop signal throughout the scene.

Pairs well with / Complete the scene

• Flared-base dildos: Any SOM (Strap-On-Me) dildo or standard flared-base dildo is compatible with the O-ring system.
• Banana Pants dildo buffers: The backless design was specifically noted as compatible — add a buffer for clitoral stimulation during use.
• Packers: Certain packer styles can be worn with this harness for all-day use or gender-affirming wear.
• Water-based lubricant: Required to protect the silicone O-rings — always keep a bottle on hand.
• Harness thong or underwear: Layer underneath for a barrier between skin and PU leatherette, or for added security during play.
• Collections: Strap-On-Me dildo collection; harness and strap-on accessories range.

How to clean and care

• Harness body: Spot-clean with a damp cloth and mild soap. Do not submerge the harness in water.
• Silicone O-rings: Remove from the harness and wash with warm water and a dedicated toy cleaner or mild soap; rinse thoroughly.
• Drying: Air dry all components flat, away from direct sunlight or heat sources.
• Lubricant compatibility: Use water-based lubricant only — silicone-based lubricants can degrade the silicone O-rings over time.
• Storage: Store in the included cotton pouch in a cool, dry place. Keep silicone O-rings separate from other silicone items to prevent material interaction and degradation.

Additional information

• Versatility: Designed for use by people of all genders, sizes, and roles in play; works with most flared-base dildos and compatible packers.
• Accessibility: The belt-and-strap system and snap buttons are easier to manage for users with limited grip strength or dexterity in their hands.
• Erectile support: May be a supportive option for people who experience difficulty maintaining an erection, premature ejaculation, or ED, providing a way to continue penetrative intimacy.
• Gender-affirming use: For people with vulvas who find penetrating a partner affirming, this harness provides a functional and comfortable platform. The design also allows the wearer to receive manual stimulation or oral sex while wearing it.
• Longevity tips: Rotating between O-ring sizes and storing components properly will extend the life of the silicone rings and the leatherette body.

Special considerations / warnings

• Mobility requirement: Putting on and using this harness requires a degree of flexibility and mobility; users with significant limitations in lower-body movement may find adjustment more challenging.
• O-ring fit: Using an O-ring that is too large for your dildo's base may cause wobbling or the dildo shifting during use — always test the fit before penetrative play.
• Lube quantity: Applying too much lubricant to the dildo can cause it to slip within the O-ring; apply in thin layers and reapply as needed.
• Material note: The PU leatherette exterior is not fully waterproof — do not submerge. If you prefer no direct skin contact with PU, wear the harness over underwear or a harness thong.
• Silicone care: Do not store silicone O-rings in contact with other silicone toys or accessories, as this can cause material degradation over time.
• Temperature: In cold environments, warm the silicone O-rings before fitting a dildo to maintain flexibility and prevent tearing.

18+ only. For consensual adult use.