The Strap-on-Me Dual Density Dildo is a bendable, body-safe silicone dildo with a flexible inner core that remembers whatever shape you give it — hold a curve toward the G-spot, P-spot, or A-spot and it stays there so you can focus entirely on sensation. A strong suction cup base lets you mount it hands-free on any flat, non-porous surface — shower tiles, a headboard, the floor — while the O-ring–compatible base slides straight into most standard harnesses for strap-on play. It is fully waterproof, available in four sizes (Small through Extra Large), and made from body-safe silicone throughout.

Strap-on-Me Dual Density Dildo features:

• Position memory: Bendable silicone core holds any angle you set until you reset it.
• Suction cup base: Mounts hands-free to smooth, non-porous surfaces for solo or partnered play.
• Strap-on compatible: O-ring harness ready; fits most standard harness types.
• Four sizes: Small, Medium, Large, and Extra Large to suit a wide range of users.
• Fully waterproof: Safe for bath, shower, and thorough cleaning.
• Internal stimulation: Designed to reach G-spot, P-spot, and A-spot depending on angle.
• Anal safe: Flared base makes it safe for anal use.
• No vibration: Pure pressure and shape stimulation — ideal for those with increased sensitivity.

Specifications / Size & material

• Material: Body-safe silicone
• Body safety: Silicone is non-porous, phthalate-free, and body-safe.
• Small: 6.7 in / 17.02 cm length × 1.06 in / 2.7 cm diameter
• Medium: 7.08 in / 18 cm length × 1.3 in / 3.3 cm diameter
• Large: 7.5 in / 19.05 cm length × 1.45 in / 3.7 cm diameter
• Extra Large: 7.9 in / 20.07 cm length × 1.77 in / 4.5 cm diameter
• Base type: Suction cup; O-ring harness compatible
• Waterproof: Yes — fully submersible

Intensity & Experience Level

Level: Beginner to Advanced (size-dependent) | Sensation: Restrictive / pressure / positional

The Small and Medium sizes are very beginner-friendly, and the flexible core means you can dial in a gentle angle with minimal effort. Stepping up to Large or Extra Large increases both girth and the physical demand of insertion, making those sizes better suited to intermediate or experienced users. Because the toy does not vibrate, stimulation stays subtle and controlled — ideal for those building confidence with penetration or those who prefer targeted pressure over intense sensation.

Who is this product for?

• Beginners and experimenters: Four sizes let newcomers start small and progress gradually at their own pace.
• Hands-free enthusiasts: The suction cup mount is perfect for solo bath or shower sessions without needing a partner or constant grip.
• Harness wearers and strap-on users: An O-ring–compatible base means it integrates with most harnesses, making it a reliable choice for strap-on penetration without requiring an erection.
• G-spot, P-spot, and A-spot explorers: Position memory lets you lock in the exact bend needed to hit internal erogenous zones consistently.
• People with limited hand mobility or grip strength: Once suctioned to a surface, the toy can be used hands-free, reducing the physical demands of solo play.

How to use the Strap-on-Me Dual Density Dildo?

1. Choose your size: Select a size based on your current comfort level and stimulation goals — start smaller if you are new to penetration.
2. Warm it up: Run the dildo under warm water for 1–2 minutes to bring it to a skin-like temperature for a more realistic feel.
3. Apply lubricant: Use a generous amount of water-based lubricant on the shaft and at the point of entry to reduce friction and maximise comfort.
4. Set the bend: Curve the shaft to the angle that suits your anatomy — toward the front wall for G-spot or P-spot stimulation, or deeper for A-spot. The core holds the shape once set.
5. Comfort checkpoint: Before proceeding, check that the angle feels comfortable and that there is no pinching or discomfort. Adjust the bend as needed.
6. Mount via suction cup (hands-free use): Press the suction base firmly against a clean, flat, non-porous surface — shower wall, floor, or firm furniture. If mounting to skin or a body surface, trimming hair in the area improves suction seal.
7. Attach to harness (strap-on use): Slide the flared base through the O-ring of your harness and secure it in place before play begins.
8. Use a towel: Place a towel beneath you during hands-free lube play to prevent slipping.
9. Stop and release: To remove from a surface, slide a finger under the suction cup edge to break the seal before pulling. For anal use, never pull sharply — release slowly and check for comfort throughout.

Techniques & ways to play

• Solo suction mount: Stick the dildo to a shower wall or smooth floor tile and ride it hands-free — full control over depth and speed without a partner.
• Reverse cowgirl: Mount it to a stable flat surface and ride facing away to control depth and angle independently.
• Bent-over / doggy stance: Fix the dildo at hip height on a wall or furniture edge and use the bendable shaft to achieve a natural penetration angle while standing or kneeling.
• Shower stance: Press the suction base to a tiled wall for vertical, hands-free penetration in the shower.
• Size progression (solo): Rotate between sizes over time to gradually expand comfort and explore different sensations at your own pace.
• Partnered strap-on play: The wearing partner (Dom or giver role) attaches the dildo to a harness, retaining full control of depth and rhythm. Agree on pace, depth limits, and a safeword before play begins — especially when stepping up to a larger size.
• Angle exploration with a partner: The receiving partner sets the bend to their preferred angle before the session, so the wearer can focus on movement without constant adjustment.

Pairs well with / Complete the scene

• Water-based lubricant: Required for safe use with silicone — a generous, long-lasting water-based formula is recommended.
• O-ring strap-on harness: A soft or leather O-ring harness adds stability during movement-heavy positions.
• OhNut wearable buffer: If penetrative depth causes discomfort, OhNut worn on the shaft limits depth and cushions impact.
• Body-safe toy cleaner: A dedicated silicone-safe toy cleaner ensures thorough hygiene between uses.
• Storage pouch or box: A dedicated, clean pouch keeps the dildo protected and separated from other toys.

How to clean and care

Before and after every use, wash the dildo thoroughly with warm water and mild soap or a body-safe toy cleaner. Because silicone is non-porous, cleaning is straightforward — work the soap over the entire surface and rinse well. Pat dry with a lint-free cloth, then allow to air-dry completely before storing.

Lubricant compatibility: Water-based lubricant only. Silicone-based lubricants can degrade the silicone material and shorten the life of the toy — avoid them entirely.

Storage: Store in a clean, dry pouch or box away from direct sunlight. Do not store in contact with other silicone toys, as prolonged surface contact between silicone items can cause material breakdown over time.

Additional information

• Hands-free accessibility: The suction cup mount means the toy can be used without a continuous grip, making it potentially suitable for people with limited hand or arm strength.
• No-vibration design: Because it does not vibrate, it may be better tolerated by people who experience heightened or sensitive responses to intense stimulation.
• Erection-independent penetration: When used with a harness, this dildo enables penetrative sex regardless of the wearer's ability to achieve or maintain an erection, and can help prolong intimacy for those who experience premature ejaculation or erectile difficulties.
• Mobility considerations: Using the toy without the suction cup requires active grip and sufficient reach to access the genitals. With the suction cup mounted, grip is still needed to attach and remove it from the surface; humping or using the toy also requires body mobility. In harness mode, hand and arm mobility is needed to mount, and body mobility to penetrate.
• Versatility: Suitable for vaginal and anal use, solo and partnered play, and strap-on scenarios — one toy covers a wide range of experiences across four size options.

Special considerations / warnings

• Suction surface: Only mount to smooth, non-porous, stable surfaces. Textured, porous, or unstable surfaces will not hold a safe seal.
• Silicone lube warning: Never use silicone-based lubricants — they permanently damage the toy's surface.
• Anal use: The flared base makes this toy anal safe, but always remove slowly and carefully. Never leave an anal toy unattended or use without a flared base.
• Storage separation: Store away from other silicone toys to prevent surface degradation.
• Mobility requirements: Some degree of hand/arm mobility and body mobility is required depending on the mode of use — review the considerations above before purchasing as an accessibility aid.
• Pain during sex: If you experience pain during penetration, consult a healthcare professional. Consider accessories such as OhNut to limit depth. Vaginal dryness is a physiological condition unrelated to arousal level — always use adequate lubrication.
• Medical flag: If you have a pelvic floor condition, recent pelvic surgery, or any condition affecting internal tissue, consult a healthcare professional before use.

18+ only. For consensual adult use.