Strap-on-Me Cum Dildo

The Strap-on-Me Cum Dildo is a body-safe silicone ejaculating dildo designed to deliver a realistic fluid-release experience during penetration. At the base it features three outlet pipes so the tubing can be routed to suit both left- and right-handed users. Fill the included large-volume syringe with your favourite water-based lubricant, connect it via the 32.3-inch (82 cm) flexible tube — which can be trimmed to any length you prefer — and depress the plunger to release up to 1 fl oz (30 ml) of liquid at the moment of your choosing. The dildo itself measures 7.7 inches (19.6 cm) in total length with a 1.4-inch (3.6 cm) diameter, is fully waterproof, and is compatible with standard strap-on harnesses.

Strap-on-Me Cum Dildo features:

• Ejaculation system: three-outlet base accepts the tube on either side for left- or right-handed operation
• Syringe volume: 1 fl oz / 30 ml — fill with realistic lubricant for a convincing fluid release
• Adjustable tube length: 32.3 in / 82 cm tube can be cut to your preferred length
• Body-safe silicone construction: non-porous, phthalate-free, skin-soft surface
• Harness compatible: fits standard O-ring strap-on harnesses
• Waterproof: safe for shower or bath play and easy to rinse clean
• Multi-spot stimulation: shape targets G-spot, A-spot, and P-spot
• Anal safe: suitable for anal use
• Non-vibrating: purely manual, no motor or batteries required

Specifications / Size & material

• Length: 7.7 in / 19.6 cm
• Diameter: 1.4 in / 3.6 cm
• Tube length: 32.3 in / 82 cm (trimmable)
• Syringe capacity: 1 fl oz / 30 ml
• Material: body-safe silicone — non-porous, latex-free, phthalate-free
• Waterproof: yes
• Harness compatible: yes

Intensity & Experience Level

Level: Intermediate | Sensation: pressure / fluid-release

The dildo itself is straightforward to use, but coordinating the syringe timing alongside penetration adds a layer of manual dexterity that suits someone already comfortable with strap-on play. The non-vibrating, purely tactile format is forgiving for those sensitive to intense stimulation, while the ejaculation mechanic rewards a bit of practice to time the release naturally.

Who is this product for?

• Harness wearers: anyone who wants to add a realistic ejaculation element to strap-on penetration, regardless of gender or anatomy.
• People experiencing erectile difficulties: can be used in a harness as an alternative means of penetration for those who have trouble maintaining an erection, experience premature ejaculation, or have erectile dysfunction — prolonging sex without pressure.
• Sensation-sensitive individuals: because it does not vibrate, it suits people who experience heightened or increased genital sensation and prefer purely pressure-based stimulation.
• Solo players: equally effective without a harness for self-directed internal stimulation and manual fluid-release.
• Curious couples: partners who want to explore realistic, cum-play dynamics using body-safe lube rather than body fluids.

How to use the Strap-on-Me Cum Dildo?

1. Prepare: wash the dildo and syringe with warm water and mild soap before first use, then rinse and dry.
2. Fill the syringe: draw your preferred water-based lubricant (or a realistic-texture lube) into the syringe — up to 30 ml maximum.
3. Attach the tube: connect the syringe to the flexible tube and route it through the outlet pipe on the side that suits your dominant hand; trim the tube to your preferred length if needed.
4. Apply lube externally: coat the dildo with additional water-based lubricant for comfortable insertion.
5. Mount in harness (optional): thread the dildo through the O-ring of your harness and position the tube so the syringe is accessible during use.
6. Comfort checkpoint: begin with slow, shallow insertion and pause to confirm comfort for yourself and/or your partner before going deeper.
7. Trigger the release: when ready, press the syringe plunger smoothly and steadily to release fluid through the tip.
8. Stop and withdraw: if there is any discomfort at any point, stop immediately, withdraw slowly, and reassess positioning or lubrication before continuing.
9. After use: detach the syringe and tube, flush both with warm water, and clean as described below.

Techniques & ways to play

• Solo internal exploration: use without a harness to manually control angle and depth while stimulating the G-spot, A-spot, or P-spot at your own pace.
• Partnered strap-on play: worn in a harness, the wearer controls penetration depth and rhythm while their free hand manages the syringe for a coordinated release.
• Anal play: the smooth silicone tip and adjustable tube routing make it equally suitable for anal stimulation — use plenty of lubricant and progress gradually.
• Fluid-play scenes: fill the syringe with warmed (body-temperature) lube for a temperature-sensation element, or experiment with different viscosities for varying realistic effects.
• Dom/sub dynamic: the partner wearing the harness holds full control over when and whether the ejaculation occurs — establish a clear signal or safeword before the scene so the receiving partner can pause or stop at any time.

Pairs well with / Complete the scene

• Water-based lubricant: required for filling the syringe and for external coating — silicone lube must not be used with silicone toys.
• Strap-on harness: any O-ring harness compatible with the dildo's base diameter to enable hands-free wearing.
• OhNut wearable buffer: if penetration depth causes discomfort, OhNut worn on the dildo acts as a soft depth-limiting barrier.
• Vaginal or anal lube applicator: for those experiencing vaginal dryness or needing internal lubrication before insertion.
• Strap-on-Me collection: explore the full Strap-on-Me range for matching harnesses and accessories.

How to clean and care

Because the dildo is made from non-porous body-safe silicone and is fully waterproof, it is straightforward to clean thoroughly. After each use, detach the syringe and tube from the dildo. Wash the dildo with warm water and a dedicated sex-toy cleaner or mild unscented soap; it can also be boiled, run through the top rack of a dishwasher (without detergent), or wiped with a 10% bleach solution, then rinsed well. Flush the tube and syringe with warm soapy water, rinse multiple times, and allow all parts to air-dry completely before reassembling or storing. Use only water-based lubricants — silicone-based lubricants will degrade the silicone surface over time. Store the dildo in a clean pouch or the original packaging, away from direct sunlight and heat, and keep it separate from other silicone items to prevent surface interaction.

Additional information

The non-vibrating design makes this dildo a durable, battery-free option with no motor components to wear out. The trimmable tube means the toy adapts to a wide range of body types and preferred positions, and the harness compatibility extends its versatility across solo and partnered use. The ejaculation mechanism adds a realistic dimension without requiring any additional electronic components. For users who experience vaginal dryness, the built-in fluid-delivery system can double as an internal lubrication method — and as a reminder, vaginal dryness is not related to arousal level. The purely pressure-based stimulation (no vibration) may suit individuals who experience heightened genital sensitivity. If used in a harness, this toy may be a helpful option for people who have difficulty maintaining an erection or who experience premature ejaculation, as it allows penetrative sex to continue independently of erection.

Special considerations / warnings

• Mobility requirements (handheld use): requires an active grasp and sufficient hand and arm mobility to hold and manoeuvre the dildo, as well as the reach to access the genitals.
• Mobility requirements (harness use): requires hand and arm mobility to mount and adjust the harness, and sufficient body mobility to achieve penetration.
• Syringe coordination: simultaneously managing penetration and the syringe plunger requires a degree of manual dexterity — practice the syringe action separately before a full scene.
• Lube compatibility: use only water-based lubricants in the syringe and on the toy surface; silicone-based lubricants will damage the silicone material.
• Anal use: always use generous lubrication for anal insertion; stop immediately if sharp or persistent pain occurs.
• Painful penetration: if penetrative sex is painful, consider using an OhNut wearable buffer to limit depth until comfort improves; consult a healthcare professional if pain persists.
• Hygiene: flush the internal tube and syringe thoroughly after every use to prevent lubricant residue build-up.
• Not a medical device: this product is not intended to diagnose, treat, or cure any medical condition, including erectile dysfunction.

18+ only. For consensual adult use.