The S&M Riding Crop: Heart is a 21-inch impact wand designed to leave a literal love note on your partner's skin. Its heart-shaped red vinyl tip delivers a stingy, pinpoint sensation that creates a visible heart-shaped mark on impact — combining classic riding crop function with a romantic, playful aesthetic. The rigid ABS plastic wand provides firm, reliable feedback with every strike, while rubber caps protect the ends and a wrist loop keeps the crop secure in your grip. No batteries or charging required — just pick it up and play.

Built with nickel-free metal hardware, the wrist strap detail is safe for those with metal sensitivities. The contrasting black stem and red vinyl heart give it a striking visual presence, equally at home in a serious BDSM scene or a lighthearted couple's adventure.

S&M Riding Crop: Heart features:

• Heart-shaped vinyl tip that creates a visible, heart-shaped mark on skin with a clean strike
• Durable ABS plastic wand for consistent, controlled impact
• Wrist loop for secure grip and safety during play
• Black stem with red vinyl heart detail for bold visual appeal
• Nickel-free metal hardware — skin-safe for sensitive users
• Rubber end caps for a finished, durable construction
• Requires no batteries or charging — always ready to use
• 21 inches / 53.3 cm total length for reach and leverage

Specifications / Size & material

• Length: 21 inches / 53.3 cm
• Wand material: ABS plastic
• Tip material: Red vinyl fabric
• Hardware: Nickel-free metal
• End caps: Rubber
• Body safety: ABS plastic and vinyl are non-porous, phthalate-free materials; nickel-free hardware reduces allergy risk
• Power source: None required

Intensity & Experience Level

Level: Beginner | Sensation: Stingy

The Heart Impact Wand is forgiving enough for first-timers — the relatively short, rigid wand limits the force of unintentional swings, and the focused tip makes it easy to aim and control. Light taps deliver a mild tingle while firmer strikes escalate to a sharp, localised sting, giving newcomers a wide range to explore before hitting any demanding territory.

Who is this product for?

• BDSM-curious beginners: Those dipping their toes into sensation and impact play who want a low-stakes, easy-to-use starting point.
• Couples exploring power exchange: Partners who enjoy Dominant/submissive dynamics and want to add visible, playful heart-shaped markings to a scene.
• Impact enthusiasts with a romantic flair: Players who love stingy sensation but also appreciate the aesthetic charm of a heart-tipped crop.
• People seeking precise stimulation: Those with lower sensitivity or a preference for pinpoint sting over broad, thuddy impact.
• One-handed users wanting control: The wrist strap and lightweight construction make it easy to grip and manoeuvre with a single hand.

How to use the Heart Impact Wand?

1. Secure your grip: Slide your hand through the wrist strap before play begins to keep the wand safely in hand throughout the session.
2. Warm up the skin: Begin with a gentle massage or soft feather touch over the target area to increase blood flow and sensitivity before introducing impact.
3. Practice your aim: Test your swing against a pillow first to find the angle and distance that leaves a clean heart-shaped mark.
4. Start slow: Use light taps on fleshy areas — the buttocks and thighs are ideal — and gauge your partner's response before building intensity.
5. Check in often: Establish safewords or signals before play and honour them immediately; pause to check comfort at any point.
6. Aim with intention: Deliver a quick, clean strike with the tip to achieve the clearest heart impression on skin.
7. Layer intensity gradually: Build up rhythmically — light taps first, then moderate strikes — to avoid overwhelming sensitive areas too quickly.
8. Stop or release: At any safeword, signal, or sign of distress, stop immediately. Set the wand down safely and attend to your partner's needs.

Techniques & ways to play

• Solo sensation exploration: Use the wand on your own thighs or other reachable areas to discover preferred intensity levels before partnered play.
• Over-the-lap position: Drape the receiver over the giver's lap for intimate, close-range strikes that are easy to control and pause.
• Face-down on bed: Gives the giver full access to the back, buttocks, and thighs while keeping the receiver relaxed and supported.
• Standing against a wall: Adds anticipation and tension to each strike, giving a clear, exposed target area and a power-dynamic charge.
• Blindfold pairing: Remove the receiver's sight to amplify the surprise and heighten arousal with each unexpected impact.
• Over clothing: Strike through a light layer of fabric for a more muted, accessible sensation — ideal when easing a new partner into impact play.
• Teasing between strikes: Drag the vinyl heart slowly across the skin between impacts as a sensory contrast and teasing gesture.
• Dom/sub dynamic: The Dom holds the wand and sets the pace; all intensity escalation should be negotiated and consented to before the scene begins. The sub's safeword is the absolute stop signal.

Pairs well with / Complete the scene

• Blindfold: Heightens anticipation and sensory contrast when paired with surprise impact.
• Feather tickler: Alternate between soft teasing and sharp strikes for powerful sensation contrast.
• Restraints or cuffs: Limit the receiver's movement to deepen the power-exchange dynamic.
• Water-based lubricant: If combining with other toys during the same session, use water-based lube only to protect vinyl and ABS surfaces.
• Toy cleaner spray: A purpose-made toy cleaning solution makes post-scene care quick and thorough.
• Collections: S&M Sensation Play, BDSM Starter Kits

How to clean and care

• Cleaning: Wipe the vinyl tip and ABS wand with a damp cloth and mild soap, or spray with a dedicated toy cleaning solution and wipe clean.
• Avoid submerging: Do not soak or immerse the wand — water can damage internal hardware and the wrist strap attachment.
• Drying: Air dry completely or pat dry with a lint-free cloth before storing.
• Lubricant compatibility: No lube is needed for this toy. If used alongside other toys in a session, choose water-based lubricants only to preserve the vinyl and ABS materials.
• Storage: Store lying flat or hung by the wrist strap in a cool, dry place. Keep away from sharp objects and abrasive surfaces to prevent friction damage to the vinyl heart.

Additional information

• Versatility: Suitable for light playful teasing through to moderate impact play — adjustable entirely through swing force and distance.
• Sensation profile: Delivers a stingy impact, most concentrated at the tip, ideal for pinpoint stimulation.
• Accessibility: Lightweight and easy to grip and manoeuvre one-handed; the wrist strap provides additional security for users who need it.
• Sensitivity considerations: May be suitable for people who experience decreased sensation, as the concentrated sting can heighten arousal and sexual sensation in varied ways.
• Disability accessibility: The strap-assisted grip and single-hand operation make it accessible for a range of users; however, it does require an active grasp and sufficient arm and hand strength and mobility to swing effectively.

Special considerations / warnings

• Physical requirements: Requires an active grasp to hold and use; requires sufficient strength and mobility in the arm and hand to swing with control.
• Avoid sensitive areas: Never strike the spine, kidneys, joints, face, neck, or any bony area. Stick to well-padded, fleshy zones such as the buttocks and thighs.
• Skin condition caution: Do not use on broken, irritated, sunburned, or otherwise compromised skin.
• Warm up first: Always warm up the skin before moderate or repeated strikes to reduce the risk of bruising or injury.
• Safewords are mandatory: Establish and honour safewords or agreed stop signals before every session.
• Inspect before use: Check the wand for cracks, loose hardware, or damage before each session. Discontinue use if the wand is compromised.
• Not a medical device: This product is not intended to diagnose, treat, or address any medical condition.
• 18+ only. For consensual adult use.