The Pipedream Spread 'Em Bar & Cuff Set brings a new dimension of control and positioning to your play. Built around a pair of sturdy, adjustable metal spreader bars, the set is engineered to hold wrists and ankles exactly where you want them, preventing any attempt to close thighs or bring wrists together. Each cuff is swivel-mounted, so there is just enough give to keep the experience comfortable without sacrificing restraint. A removable nylon support strap extends the set's versatility further, opening up elevated or angled positioning options beyond flat-on-the-bed play. Every component packs neatly into the included carrying case, making the set just as at home in a hotel room as in your own bedroom.

Spread 'Em Bar & Cuff Set features:

• Adjustable bars: Metal spreader bars adjust to the desired length and lock in place for a secure hold
• Adjustable cuffs: Wrist and ankle cuffs fasten to a secure fit, preventing closure during play
• Swivel-mounted cuffs: Allow a degree of natural movement, adding flexibility without compromising restraint
• Removable nylon support strap: Detaches for standard use or attaches for expanded positioning possibilities
• Durable metal construction: Sturdy and reliable for consistent restraint
• Cushioned cuffs: Lined for comfort against skin during extended wear
• Carrying case included: Discreet, convenient storage and transport

Specifications / Size & material

• Bars: Adjustable metal spreader bars
• Straps: Nylon support strap (removable)
• Cuffs: Cushioned cuffs for wrists and ankles
• Includes: Spreader bars, wrist cuffs, ankle cuffs, nylon support strap, carrying case
• Body safety: Metal bars with cushioned, nylon-strapped cuffs; no powered components

Intensity & Experience Level

Level: Beginner | Sensation: Restrictive

The Spread 'Em Bar & Cuff Set is designed to be approachable and low-intimidation — adjustable bar lengths let you start conservatively and work up gradually, and the swivel cuffs ensure the restrained partner never feels painfully locked in place. It rewards clear communication and a slow, exploratory pace rather than demanding prior experience with restraint play.

Who is this product for?

• Beginners exploring BDSM or restraint play: Easy to operate, not intimidating, and ideal for a first step into positional control.
• Couples wanting enhanced position control: Keeps a partner open and accessible for deeper, more direct stimulation without constant manual effort.
• Fans of dominant/submissive dynamics: Provides a body-safe, non-extreme way to incorporate submission and control into scenes.
• People who enjoy roleplay scenarios: The adjustable bars and support strap make it easy to set up a variety of themed restraint positions.
• Anyone seeking lower-effort positioning tools: The bars hold position independently, freeing both partners' hands during play.

How to use the Spread 'Em Bar & Cuff Set?

1. Unpack all components from the carrying case and lay them out so everything is within easy reach.
2. Adjust each bar to the desired length and lock it in place using the provided locking mechanisms — start shorter than you think you need.
3. Secure the cuffs around wrists and ankles, lining them up comfortably against the skin and fastening without over-tightening; you should be able to slip one finger underneath each cuff.
4. Attach the nylon support strap if you want to explore elevated or angled positioning options such as lightweight vertical restraint.
5. Comfort checkpoint: Before beginning play, check circulation, ask your partner to confirm the restraint feels safe, and confirm your agreed safeword is clear.
6. Explore positions — doggy style with wider ankle spread, missionary with wrists and ankles raised, or a kneeling spread with bars positioned in front of and behind the knees.
7. Stop/release step: At any point, unfasten the buckles on the cuffs to release. Position cuffs so the wearer or their partner can always reach them; never leave a restrained person alone.

Techniques & ways to play

• Solo exploration: Try the set alone first to find comfortable bar lengths, test the stretch range, and familiarise yourself with the buckle mechanisms before partnered use.
• Doggy-style spread: Attach ankle cuffs to the bar for a wider stance, increasing access and depth during rear-entry penetration.
• Missionary hold: Use both the wrist and ankle cuffs simultaneously to pin the restrained partner open and elevate vulnerability for the active partner.
• Kneeling spread: Position the bar parallel to the knees to hold an open-legged kneeling posture, ideal for oral play or penetration from behind.
• Sensory layering: Combine with a blindfold so the restrained partner cannot anticipate touch, heightening every sensation.
• Dom/sub dynamic: The dominant partner controls bar length and cuff placement, while the submissive communicates comfort. Negotiate limits and establish a safeword before any restraint is applied, and escalate only with explicit ongoing consent.

Pairs well with / Complete the scene

• Blindfold or sensory mask: Heightens anticipation when the restrained partner cannot see what comes next.
• Massage candles or massage oil: Perfect for extended sensory scenes while your partner is held open and still.
• Quality personal lubricant: Recommended when spreading restraints are used during penetrative play to reduce friction — compatible with all lube types.
• Soft pillow or positioning wedge: Place under hips for comfort and improved angle during bar play.
• Restraint & Bondage collection and BDSM Starter Sets collection for complementary gear.

How to clean and care

• Metal bars: Wipe down with warm water and mild soap or a dedicated toy cleaner; dry immediately to prevent any surface oxidation.
• Nylon straps: Hand-wash with warm water and mild soap; rinse thoroughly.
• Cushioned cuffs: Wipe with a cloth dampened with antibacterial toy cleaner; avoid saturating the padding.
• Drying: Allow all components — especially the cuffs and nylon parts — to air dry completely before storing to prevent mould or odour.
• Lubricant compatibility: Safe for use with water-based, silicone-based, and oil-based lubricants; lube contact with the bars and straps is generally minimal.
• Storage: Store in the included carrying case in a cool, dry place. Do not cram into a drawer — this can bend or warp the metal bars over time.

Additional information

• Versatility: Adaptable for front, back, and kneeling positions, making it a flexible addition to a wide range of scenes.
• Hands-free positioning: The bars maintain the spread position independently, reducing physical effort for the active partner.
• Stimulation enhancement: By holding the body open, the set improves access to erogenous zones for oral, manual, or penetrative stimulation.
• Accessibility: Lower grip-strength requirement during use compared to manual restraint; buckles may require some dexterity — a partner can assist if needed.
• Portability: The included carrying case makes the set easy to travel with discreetly.

Special considerations / warnings

• Mobility: Use requires the ability to spread and hold limbs in position for short periods; do not force a range of motion that causes pain.
• Bar length: Adjust bar length conservatively — setting the spread too wide too quickly can strain hip and knee joints. Increase length gradually over sessions.
• Circulation checks: Check regularly that cuffs are not restricting blood flow; release immediately if numbness, tingling, or discolouration occurs.
• Never leave unattended: Always keep a restrained partner within reach and sight; ensure they can be released quickly at any time.
• Support strap use: The nylon support strap is suitable for lightweight positional use only — it is not rated for full body-weight suspension.
• Dexterity: Users should be able to operate buckles and swivel clips, or have a partner present who can do so.
• Safeword: Agree on a clear safeword or safe signal before every session, and stop play immediately if it is used.
• Sensitive skin: Line the inside of cuffs with a soft cloth if skin marks easily or is particularly sensitive.

18+ only. For consensual adult use.