The New Comers Strap-On Kit is a thoughtfully designed beginner harness set that makes strap-on play approachable, adjustable, and genuinely enjoyable from the very first try. The 4-way adjustable harness is constructed from durable polyester and polypropylene webbing with plastic hardware, stretching to fit hips up to 60" (152.4 cm) so it accommodates a wide range of body sizes. The front O-ring accepts dildos with a 1.25" diameter base, giving you the flexibility to use the included dildo now and upgrade later. Included is a Sportsheets Please dildo made from body-safe silicone — measuring 5" (12.7 cm) in length and 0.88" (2.2 cm) in diameter — which slots securely into the harness for stable, hands-free wear once positioned. Because the harness holds everything in place after initial setup, wearers can focus entirely on movement, rhythm, and connection rather than manual positioning.

New Comers Strap-On Kit features:

• 4-way adjustable harness fits hips up to 60" / 152.4 cm
• Compatible O-ring accepts dildos with a 1.25" diameter base
• Includes a Sportsheets Please body-safe silicone dildo (5" x 0.88" / 12.7 cm x 2.2 cm)
• Hands-free use once secured in place
• Harness constructed from polyester, polypropylene webbing, and plastic hardware
• Compatible with most standard strap-on dildos for easy upgrades
• Important: The included silicone dildo is NOT compatible with silicone-based lubricants — use water-based lube only

Specifications / Size & material

• Dildo length: 5" / 12.7 cm
• Dildo diameter: 0.88" / 2.2 cm
• O-ring size: 1.25" diameter (compatible with most standard harness-ready dildos)
• Hip fit: Adjustable up to 60" / 152.4 cm
• Harness materials: Polyester, polypropylene webbing, plastic
• Dildo material: Body-safe silicone
• Body safety: Silicone dildo is non-porous, phthalate-free, and body-safe; harness materials are durable and skin-safe for external wear

Intensity & Experience Level

Level: Beginner | Sensation: Penetrative / restrictive

This kit is intentionally low-pressure — the modest dildo size and straightforward harness design make it forgiving for first-timers who are still learning fit, angles, and rhythm. The harness holds without being overly constricting, and the included dildo's slim profile means receivers can ease into the experience at a comfortable pace.

Who is this product for?

• Beginner couples: Those curious about strap-on dynamics and wanting to explore in a relaxed, low-commitment way without a steep learning curve.
• People managing erectile difficulties: Individuals experiencing erectile dysfunction, premature ejaculation, or difficulty maintaining erections who want to continue enjoying penetrative intimacy with a partner.
• People with limited hand or arm mobility: Once secured, the harness allows fully hands-free thrusting, reducing the physical demand on hands, wrists, and grip.
• Trans and nonbinary individuals: Those seeking affirming, body-positive ways to participate in penetrative play on their own terms.
• Anyone exploring reduced genital sensitivity: People with decreased sensation or vaginal dryness who want a reliable, lubricant-compatible route to penetrative pleasure.

How to use the New Comers Strap-On Kit?

1. Prep the straps: Adjust the harness to fit snugly around your hips or waist — secure, but not tight enough to cut circulation.
2. Insert the dildo: Place the included 5" silicone dildo into the O-ring at the front of the harness and confirm it is firmly seated before play begins.
3. Lubricate generously: Apply water-based lubricant to the dildo and to your partner's body for comfort and smooth glide. Never use silicone-based lube with the included silicone dildo as it will degrade the material.
4. Comfort checkpoint: Wear the kit for a few minutes before full play — walk around, squat, and simulate thrusting movements to assess fit, dildo centering, and overall comfort. Shorten straps evenly on both sides to keep the dildo centered for better control.
5. Communicate throughout: Whether you are giving or receiving, check in with your partner and make adjustments for comfort and consent before and during play. Use a towel or pillow under the receiver in lying positions to align body angles and reduce strain.
6. Stop/release step: To end or pause, simply loosen the adjustable straps and step out of the harness. Remove and set aside the dildo before cleaning both pieces.

Techniques & ways to play

• Solo practice: Wear the harness alone first — walking, squatting, or simulating thrusts helps you understand how it moves and builds confidence before partnered play.
• Missionary: Offers close eye contact and intimacy, ideal for slow and connected strap-on play with easy communication.
• Doggy style: Gives the harness wearer stronger leverage and rhythm control for more powerful thrusting.
• Cowgirl / partner-on-top: Lets the receiving partner control depth and pace, making it an excellent position for first-timers who want to set the tempo.
• Dom/sub dynamic: The harness wearer naturally holds positional control, while the receiving partner can guide depth and rhythm — establish clear signals and verbal check-ins before escalating intensity, keeping consent central throughout the scene.

Pairs well with / Complete the scene

• Required consumable: Water-based lubricant — essential for comfort with the included silicone dildo and non-negotiable for this kit.
• Upgrade dildos: Any harness-compatible dildo with a 1.25" base can be swapped in as you grow more confident and want more size, texture, or firmness.
• Toy cleaner: A dedicated silicone-safe toy cleaner makes dildo hygiene quick and thorough between uses.
• Blindfolds or restraints: Sensory accessories from our Bondage & Restraints collection can deepen the power-exchange element of strap-on play.
• Collections to explore: Strap-On Harnesses & Dildos, Beginner Sex Toys

How to clean and care

• Harness cleaning: Hand wash the polyester and webbing straps with warm water and mild detergent. Lay flat to air dry completely before storing — do not machine dry.
• Dildo cleaning: Wash the silicone dildo with warm water and mild soap or a dedicated toy cleaner before and after every use. Rinse thoroughly.
• Lube compatibility: Water-based lubricants only. Silicone-based lubricants will degrade the silicone dildo over time.
• Storage: Store the kit in a cool, dry place. Keep the silicone dildo separate from other silicone toys to prevent material interaction and surface degradation.
• Tip: Warming the dildo briefly under lukewarm water before use gives it a more body-like feel.

Additional information

• Versatility: Use the included dildo or swap in any 1.25" base dildo to customise size, shape, and firmness as your experience grows.
• Hands-free stability: Once the harness is adjusted and positioned, no hands are needed — helpful for users with limited grip strength or arm mobility.
• Accessibility: A practical option for people managing reduced genital sensitivity, erectile difficulties, or vaginal dryness who want to maintain penetrative intimacy comfortably.
• Expandable system: This kit is a genuine entry point — the harness is compatible with a wide range of buildable dildo options, so your investment grows with your experience.

Special considerations / warnings

• Silicone lube incompatibility: Never use silicone-based lubricants with the included dildo. Doing so will permanently damage the material. Use water-based lube exclusively.
• Mobility requirement: Initial setup requires the ability to adjust straps, step into the harness, and position the dildo securely. Ask a partner for assistance if needed.
• Dildo separation in storage: Do not store the silicone dildo in contact with other silicone items — material degradation can occur over time.
• Harness weight limits: This harness is designed for light to medium thrusting. It is not rated for heavy-impact or highly vigorous use — monitor strap integrity over time.
• Inspect before use: Check straps, hardware, and the dildo surface for any signs of wear, cracking, or damage before each use. Discontinue use if damage is found.
• Not a medical device: This product is not a substitute for professional medical advice or treatment for erectile dysfunction, mobility conditions, or any other health concern.

18+ only. For consensual adult use.