Lovense Lapis Vibrating Strapless Strap-On

The Lovense Lapis is a flexible, double-ended vibrating strapless strap-on designed for shared pleasure regardless of sexual orientation or gender identity. A wearable insertable bulb (3.43 in. length, 1.52 in. diameter) nestles internally to stimulate the wearer's G-spot and clitoris via ridged grooves, while the sleek outer shaft (5.43 in. insertable length, 1.61 in. diameter) delivers targeted stimulation to the receiver's G-spot or P-spot with its ribbed design. Three independently controlled motors let each partner dial in their preferred intensity and pattern, and the flexible neck keeps the fit comfortable through movement. At 11.1 oz. and built from body-safe silicone, it is lightweight, realistic in feel, and rated IPX7 waterproof for play in the shower or bath. Full control is available via the Lovense Remote app, which supports long-distance control, group play, custom pattern creation, and music sync — or hand the reins to your partner entirely.

Lovense Lapis Vibrating Strapless Strap-On features:

• Three independently controlled motors for personalised intensity and patterns
• Unlimited vibration patterns via app or on-device controls
• Controllable through the Lovense Remote app — long-distance control, group play, pattern creation, and music sync
• Hands-free wear after initial placement; harness-compatible for added security
• Flexible neck and lightweight body for comfort during active play
• IPX7 waterproof rating — safe for shower and bath use
• Up to 156 minutes of use time per charge
• Charges in approximately 105 minutes; up to 120 hours standby
• Body-safe silicone construction

Specifications / Size & material

• Overall dimensions: 9.06 x 4.72 in. (230 x 120 mm)
• Insertable shaft length: 5.43 in. (138 mm)
• Insertable shaft diameter: 1.61 in. (41 mm)
• Insertable bulb length: 3.43 in. (87 mm)
• Insertable bulb diameter: 1.52 in. (38.5 mm)
• Weight: 11.1 oz. (315 g)
• Material: Body-safe silicone — non-porous, phthalate-free, and body-safe
• Waterproof rating: IPX7
• Use time: Up to 156 minutes
• Charge time: Approximately 105 minutes
• Standby time: Up to 120 hours
• Motors: 3 independently controlled
• Control: On-device buttons and Lovense Remote app

Intensity & Experience Level

Level: Intermediate — Sensation: Vibrating / penetrative / dual-stimulation

The Lapis is approachable for anyone comfortable with internal toys, but the strapless fit takes a little practice to master: pelvic floor engagement, positioning, and partner rhythm all contribute to keeping the bulb secure. The three adjustable motors mean intensity can be kept gentle for newcomers or ramped up for experienced users, making this a grow-with-you toy rather than an all-or-nothing experience.

Who is this product for?

• Queer and gender-diverse couples: those exploring mutual penetration and shared sensation without the need for a traditional harness.
• Wearers who want internal stimulation while giving pleasure: the insertable bulb provides G-spot and clitoral stimulation throughout the experience.
• Long-distance partners: the Lovense app's remote-control feature keeps intimacy alive across any distance.
• Role-switching couples: anyone who wants maximum flexibility, dual stimulation, and the option to swap dynamics in a single versatile toy.
• Curious beginners to strapless toys: the adjustable motors and harness-compatible design offer a supportive entry point into strap-on play.

How to use the Lovense Lapis Vibrating Strapless Strap-On?

1. Charge fully before first use — connect the magnetic charger and allow approximately 105 minutes for a complete charge.
2. Apply water-based lubricant generously to the insertable bulb and internally before insertion.
3. Insert the bulb vaginally — wiggle and tilt your hips slightly to find the angle that feels snug without discomfort. It should feel secure, not strained.
4. Comfort checkpoint — once inserted, pause and check that the bulb sits comfortably and the outer shaft is positioned correctly. Adjust as needed before activating vibration.
5. Engage pelvic floor muscles to help hold the bulb in place for hands-free wear; alternatively, use supportive underwear or a soft harness to assist with stability.
6. Activate vibration via the on-device button or open the Lovense Remote app to select patterns, sync to music, or hand control to a partner.
7. Choose your position — face-to-face (missionary or edge of bed) for intimacy and position control, doggy style for deeper penetration and natural thrusting, or spooning for a slower and more sensual pace.
8. Stop and release — to remove, relax your pelvic floor, apply gentle outward pressure, and slide the bulb free. Power off before cleaning.

Techniques & ways to play

• Solo exploration: insert the bulb alone first to learn how it sits and moves in your body — building confidence before partnered play makes the shared experience smoother.
• Solo vibration mapping: use the app to build and save your preferred vibration patterns before play so you are not adjusting mid-session.
• Partnered — face-to-face: missionary or sitting on the edge of a bed lets both partners maintain eye contact and easily support the toy's position.
• Partnered — doggy style: natural thrusting motion activates both the shaft and the internal bulb simultaneously for intensified dual stimulation.
• Partnered — spooning: a relaxed pace ideal for sensory focus, extended sessions, or anyone who prefers gentle, sustained stimulation.
• Temperature play warm-up: run the toy under warm water before insertion (IPX7 safe) to remove the initial cool-silicone sensation for a more natural feel.
• Dom/sub dynamic: the wearer can surrender full control by handing their partner the Lovense app — all motor intensity and pattern changes remain in the partner's hands. Establish a clear signal or safeword before transferring control, and always check in before escalating intensity.

Pairs well with / Complete the scene

• Water-based lubricant: required to protect the silicone surface — a generous, premium water-based formula is essential for comfortable bulb insertion.
• Soft harness or supportive underwear: adds stability for users new to strapless wear or those who prefer extra security during active play.
• OhNut wearable buffer: for receivers with depth-sensitivity concerns, pairing with a wearable depth-limiter allows precise penetration control.
• Toy-safe cleaner: a dedicated silicone-compatible cleaner simplifies hygiene before and after use.
• Lint-free storage pouch: keeps the silicone surface pristine between sessions.
• Lovense collection: pairs naturally with other app-connected Lovense devices for synchronised or group-play scenarios.

How to clean and care

Rinse the Lapis with warm water and clean with mild soap or a dedicated toy-safe cleaner before and after every use. Because it is rated IPX7 waterproof, it can be cleaned fully under running water. Pat dry with a clean, soft cloth and allow to air dry completely before storing. Use only water-based lubricants — silicone-based formulas can degrade the silicone surface over time. Store the toy in a separate lint-free pouch in a cool, dry place away from direct sunlight and away from other silicone toys to prevent surface interaction.

Additional information

• Versatility: suitable for solo internal use or partnered strap-on play; stimulates G-spot, A-spot, P-spot, and clitoris; anal-safe design.
• Increased sensitivity: the three individually adjustable motors allow intensity to be kept very low, making the toy potentially suitable for users with heightened sensitivity.
• Vaginal dryness: apply water-based lubricant generously to ease insertion and maintain comfort throughout use.
• Depth concerns: pairing with a wearable depth buffer such as OhNut gives the receiver precise control over penetration depth.
• Mobility requirements: moderate body mobility is needed for thrusting and positioning during partnered use.
• Dexterity: users must be able to operate the on-device button or navigate the app; a partner can manage app controls remotely as an alternative.
• Durability: premium body-safe silicone and IPX7-rated construction are built for long-term regular use.

Special considerations / warnings

• Bulb retention: strapless strap-ons rely on pelvic floor engagement — if the bulb does not stay in place comfortably, use supportive underwear or a harness rather than forcing fit.
• Lube compatibility: use only water-based lubricant. Silicone or oil-based lubricants will damage the silicone material.
• Cleaning between uses: if using anally and vaginally in the same session, clean thoroughly between transitions to prevent bacterial transfer.
• App and connectivity: long-distance app features require a stable internet connection on both devices; test connectivity before a remote session.
• Reach and positioning: users must be able to insert and secure the bulb themselves or with a partner's assistance; those with limited lower-body mobility may require support.
• Charging: use only the supplied Lovense magnetic charging cable to avoid damage to the charging port or battery.
• Medical flag: individuals with pelvic floor dysfunction, vaginismus, or prostate conditions should consult a healthcare professional before use. Discontinue use if pain, irritation, or discomfort occurs and do not resume until symptoms have resolved.

18+ only. For consensual adult use.