SS Pivot In Your Face Strap On

The Pivot In Your Face Strap-On is a neoprene face harness engineered for bold oral-fantasy and face-sitting scenarios. Built from dual layers of stretchy neoprene, the harness wraps securely around the head—a lower strap seated beneath the chin and an upper strap circling the crown—stretching up to 20 inches (50.8 cm) from mouth to the parietal bone of the skull before the material gives. Hook-and-loop (Velcro-style) closures on both straps let the wearer dial in a snug, customisable fit, while silicone dot grips on the straps add stability throughout play. Medical-grade hair-safe hooks prevent painful tugging, making it workable for longer and textured hair types. The harness holds any flared-base dildo between 1 and 2 inches in diameter and functions in two orientations: outward-facing for face-riding strap-on play, or inward-facing for gag-style kink scenarios. No motors, no batteries—just versatile, fully manual intimacy.

Pivot In Your Face Strap-On features:

• Dual-layer neoprene construction for soft stretch and a firm, secure hold throughout sessions
• Outward or inward orientation — functions as a face strap-on or an inward gag-style toy depending on dildo placement
• Fits up to 20 inches (50.8 cm) from chin to top of head before stretching
• Hook-and-loop strap closures for fully adjustable, customisable fit on most head shapes
• Silicone dot grips on straps for added stability during active play
• Medical-grade hair-safe hooks designed to avoid catching or painfully pulling hair
• Compatible with flared-base dildos measuring 1–2 inches in diameter
• Hands-free design ideal for face-sitting, oral fantasy, and pegging-alternative scenarios

Specifications / Size & material

• Fit range: Up to 20 in. (50.8 cm) from chin to top of head before stretching
• Material: Dual-layer neoprene with medical-grade plastic hooks
• Compatible dildo base: Standard flared base, 1–2 inches in diameter
• Closure type: Hook-and-loop (Velcro-style) adjustable straps
• Grip feature: Silicone dot lining on straps
• Body safety note: Medical-grade plastic hardware; neoprene is a soft synthetic rubber — keep the harness itself away from oil-based and silicone lubricants to preserve material integrity

Intensity & Experience Level

Level: Beginner to Intermediate — Sensation tags: restrictive, sensory-deprivation-adjacent, power-exchange

The Pivot is approachable for curious first-timers exploring face-sitting or oral-fantasy dynamics, though the gag-style inward orientation and the positional vulnerability it creates push it toward intermediate territory for those new to breath-awareness play. The adjustable closures and forgiving neoprene make fitting straightforward, and sessions can be dialled back simply by loosening the straps or changing orientation — giving both partners easy control over intensity.

Who is this product for?

• Couples exploring face-sitting and dominant roleplay: partners who want intensified intimacy and body-control dynamics without complex equipment
• Kink-curious users: those dipping into power exchange or oral-fantasy scenarios for the first time, looking for a low-tech, fully manual approach
• Adventurous partners into gag-style or humiliation play: the inward-facing orientation turns the harness into a restraint-adjacent oral tool for consensual degradation scenes
• Flared-base dildo owners: anyone wanting a hands-free, wearable platform that repurposes their existing toy collection for seated or face-riding penetration play
• Those with hair concerns: wearers with longer or textured hair who have avoided head harnesses due to painful hook designs will appreciate the medical-grade hair-safe hardware

How to use the Pivot In Your Face Strap-On?

1. Choose a compatible dildo: select a flared-base dildo between 1 and 2 inches in diameter — this is a firm requirement for a safe, stable fit in the harness ring.
2. Insert the dildo into the harness: thread it outward-facing for face strap-on and face-riding play, or inward-facing for gag-style use.
3. Position the harness on the head: place the lower strap beneath the chin and the upper strap around the crown of the head.
4. Secure the hook-and-loop closures: tighten both straps gradually until the harness feels snug and stable without pressing uncomfortably on the skull or jaw.
5. Comfort checkpoint: verify the silicone dot grips are flush against the straps and that the medical-grade hooks are not catching hair or pinching skin — adjust before play begins.
6. Begin play in your chosen position: try the Seated Throne (wearer on a sturdy chair, partner straddles), Reclined Oral (wearer lies back with head between partner's thighs), or Kneeling Peg (partner kneels in front of wearer for frontal penetration or power-dynamic play against a wall).
7. Stop or release: either partner can signal a pause at any time — the wearer loosens the hook-and-loop closures to remove the harness immediately if needed. Establish a non-verbal safe signal before starting, especially in inward-facing gag-style use where verbal communication may be limited.

Techniques & ways to play

• Solo exploration: practice fitting the harness alone before a partnered session — get comfortable inserting your dildo, adjusting the straps, and moving your head to gauge range of motion and comfort at different tightness levels.
• Outward face-riding: with the dildo facing outward, invite a partner to straddle the face for a hands-free, deep-connection face-riding experience that encourages prolonged eye contact and slow build-up.
• Reclined oral fantasy: wearer lies back while partner hovers or kneels over the face — ideal for partners who enjoy controlling depth and pace from above.
• Inward gag-style: flip the dildo inward for a consensual gag-adjacent scene that combines oral restriction with power-exchange tension.
• Wall-kneeling power dynamic: partner kneels in front of the seated or standing wearer for frontal penetration or tension-building roleplay against a wall or headboard.
• Dom/sub dynamic: the dominant partner controls positioning, pace, and angle of approach; the submissive wearer's head and jaw movement are naturally restricted by the harness — negotiate boundaries, safe signals, and desired intensity clearly before escalating.

Pairs well with / Complete the scene

• Flared-base dildos (1–2 in. diameter): the harness requires one — any body-safe silicone, glass, or hard-plastic flared-base toy within the stated diameter range works
• Water-based lubricant: apply to the dildo for comfort; required for penetrative use and safe on all compatible dildo materials
• Blindfold or bondage tape: deepen sensory play by removing the partner's sight, amplifying the surrender of the face-riding or gag-style scenario
• Wrist restraints or cuffs: pair with the Pivot for a fuller restriction scene — wearer's hands can be bound to keep the power dynamic clear
• Collections to explore: Harnesses & Strap-On Systems, Kink & Bondage Accessories

How to clean and care

• Cleaning: hand wash the harness with mild soap and warm water or a fabric-safe toy cleaner; rinse thoroughly, paying attention to the hook-and-loop closure areas where moisture can collect
• Drying: air dry completely in a well-ventilated space before storage — allow ample drying time around the hook-and-loop sections to prevent mildew or material decay
• Lubricant compatibility: water-based lubricant only on the dildo itself; avoid oil-based or silicone lubricants on the neoprene harness as they can degrade the material
• Storage: store flat or loosely rolled in a cool, dry drawer; keep away from sharp edges and store separately from silicone toys to maintain the integrity of both
• Dildo care: clean the inserted dildo according to its own material instructions — remove it from the harness before cleaning both components

Additional information

• Versatility: functions in two distinct orientations (outward strap-on and inward gag-style), giving a single product meaningful replayability across different scene types
• Hair safety: medical-grade hooks are specifically designed to avoid tugging or catching — a practical advantage for wearers with longer, curlier, or textured hair who have found other head harnesses uncomfortable
• Hands-free platform: the harness frees both the wearer's and partner's hands entirely, opening possibilities for additional touch, restraint, or toy use during a scene
• Presence and connection: the face-forward positioning naturally encourages sustained eye contact, close proximity, and a slow, deliberate build-up to intimacy
• Accessibility note: adjustable straps and flexible neoprene accommodate a wide range of head shapes and sizes; those with limited neck mobility should consider shorter, less demanding positions

Special considerations / warnings

• Neck and head mobility: the wearer needs sufficient head and neck flexibility for extended sessions — take breaks as needed and avoid prolonged static positioning that causes strain
• Partner stability: the straddling or hovering partner must be stable and in control of their own weight at all times to avoid putting unsafe pressure on the wearer's head or neck
• Breath awareness: always establish and honour clear non-verbal safe signals before use, especially in gag-style inward orientation or any position where the wearer's face is partially obscured — verbal safewords may not be accessible
• Dexterity required: inserting the dildo and tightening the straps requires use of both hands — practise the full fitting process before a session so adjustments are quick and confident in the moment
• Sensitivity and breaks: prolonged head pressure or gag-style positioning can become uncomfortable; take regular breaks, communicate often, and listen to your body
• Dildo safety: only use flared-base dildos within the 1–2 inch diameter range stated — an unsecured or oversized dildo is a safety hazard during face-riding or penetrative use
• Hygiene between uses: ensure the harness is fully dry before storing or reusing, particularly around hook-and-loop areas, to prevent mould, mildew, or skin irritation

18+ only. For consensual adult use.