The Dame Pom is a flexible, palm-sized clitoral vibrator designed to move with your body rather than against it. Its soft, bendable form snuggles against your anatomy and adjusts in real time, making it easy to find and hold exactly the right angle without awkward repositioning. Built from medical-grade silicone, the Pom is body-safe, velvety to the touch, and fully waterproof — ready for bath, shower, or wherever you find your moment. With five vibration patterns and five intensity levels, it offers a generous range of sensation from gentle, teasing pulses all the way up to deep, sustained rumbles, all controlled from a compact body that fits comfortably in one hand.

Dame Pom Flexible Vibrator features:

• Flexible body: Bends and conforms to your body for effortless, hands-free-feeling positioning
• Medical-grade silicone: Body-safe, non-porous, phthalate-free, and skin-soft
• Fully waterproof: Safe for use in water, making cleaning simple and play more versatile
• 5 vibration intensities: Escalating power from barely-there to strong, rumbly stimulation
• 5 vibration patterns: Varied rhythms and pulses to explore and customise your experience
• Palm-sized design: Compact enough to hold securely and discreet enough to store easily

Specifications / Size & material

• Brand: Dame
• Material: Medical-grade silicone
• Body safety: Non-porous, phthalate-free, latex-free silicone — body-safe for external use
• Waterproof: Yes, fully waterproof
• Vibration modes: 5 patterns + 5 intensities
• Category: Finger and clit vibrator

Intensity & Experience Level

Level: Beginner — Sensation: Suction / pressure-free external buzz (rumbly vibration)

The Pom's flexible silicone body and intuitive single-zone focus make it exceptionally forgiving for first-time vibrator users, while its five intensity levels and five patterns give experienced users plenty of room to explore deeper sensation and customised rhythm.

Who is this product for?

• First-time vibrator users: The simple, bendy design removes guesswork about positioning and angle.
• Clitoral stimulation seekers: Shaped and engineered specifically for external, targeted pleasure.
• Partnered play enthusiasts: Compact and flexible enough to use comfortably during intercourse or foreplay with a partner.
• Shower and bath lovers: Full waterproofing means the Pom is just as at home in water as on the bedside table.
• Sensation explorers: Ten combined modes let curious users experiment with rhythm, pattern, and intensity at their own pace.

How to use the Dame Pom Flexible Vibrator?

1. Charge fully before first use. Ensure the Pom is charged according to the manufacturer's instructions so you experience the full range of intensities.
2. Apply a water-based lubricant to the silicone surface or directly to your skin for smoother, more comfortable contact.
3. Power on by pressing the control button and select your starting intensity — begin at the lowest setting to warm up gradually.
4. Bend the body gently to match your anatomy, placing the rounded head against your clitoris or preferred external area.
5. Cycle through patterns and intensities using the controls, pausing at each level to check in with how your body responds — only escalate when you feel comfortable.
6. Comfort checkpoint: If any sensation feels too intense or causes discomfort, step down to a lower intensity or reposition before continuing.
7. To stop, power off using the control button and remove the vibrator gently. Rinse and clean before storage.

Techniques & ways to play

• Solo direct stimulation: Hold the Pom flat against the clitoris and let the flexible tip follow your natural movement for continuous, consistent contact.
• Solo edging: Cycle up through intensities to the edge of orgasm, then drop back to a lower pattern, prolonging sensation before building again.
• Partnered foreplay: A partner can hold and control the Pom against you during kissing or other play, keeping your hands free.
• Partnered use during intercourse: The slim, pliable profile fits between bodies during penetrative sex for simultaneous clitoral stimulation.
• Dom/sub dynamic: The Dominant partner holds control of the Pom and its settings, deciding when to intensify or withdraw stimulation — always with explicit prior consent on limits and a clear stop signal agreed beforehand.

Pairs well with / Complete the scene

• Water-based lubricant: Required for use with silicone toys — silicone-based lubricants can degrade the surface over time.
• Blindfold or sensory mask: Removing sight heightens tactile awareness and makes every pattern shift feel more intense.
• Restraints or cuffs: Limiting movement while the Pom is applied builds anticipation and deepens the experience.
• Dame product collection: Explore other Dame pleasure tools for a cohesive, body-safe toy kit.
• Finger & clit vibrator collection: Browse the full range at The BDSM Store for complementary external stimulators.

How to clean and care

Because the Pom is made from non-porous medical-grade silicone and is fully waterproof, cleaning is straightforward. Rinse the entire toy under warm water before and after every use. Wash with a mild, fragrance-free soap or a dedicated toy cleaner, then rinse thoroughly and pat dry with a clean lint-free cloth. Allow to air-dry completely before storing. Store in a soft pouch or the original packaging, away from other silicone toys to prevent surface contact degradation. Use only water-based lubricants with the Pom — silicone-based lubricants can break down the silicone surface over time.

Additional information

The Dame Pom is built for durability and long-term use, with a robust medical-grade silicone body that resists tearing or deformation during normal bending and flexing. Its compact size makes it highly versatile — equally suited to solo sessions, partnered intimacy, and travel. The waterproof construction broadens accessibility, allowing use in wet environments and simplifying hygiene routines. The wide intensity and pattern range means the Pom can grow with a user's preferences over time rather than becoming redundant as experience develops.

Special considerations / warnings

• External use only: The Dame Pom is designed for external clitoral stimulation and is not intended for internal insertion.
• Silicone lubricant warning: Do not use silicone-based lubricants with this toy as they will degrade the silicone surface; use water-based lubricants only.
• Skin sensitivity: If you experience any irritation, redness, or discomfort during or after use, discontinue immediately and consult a healthcare professional if symptoms persist.
• Medical devices / pacemakers: Individuals with implanted electronic medical devices should consult their doctor before using any vibrating product.
• Charging and water: Do not charge the device while wet or submerged; ensure ports are dry before charging.
• Do not share without thorough cleaning between users to maintain hygiene standards.

18+ only. For consensual adult use.