Aer by Dame

The Aer by Dame is a powerful air-pulse arousal tool designed to tease the clitoris with rhythmic bursts of air, creating a suction-like, fluttering sensation that closely mimics the feeling of oral sex. Its flexible, soft silicone mouth forms a gentle seal around the clitoris, delivering targeted stimulation without any direct contact—just pure, pulsing airflow. With 5 intensity levels and 5 pulsation patterns to explore, the Aer gives you precise control over exactly how and when pleasure builds. Built from medical-grade silicone on the outside and ABS plastic for internal components, it is fully body-safe and completely waterproof, making it equally at home in the bath or shower as it is on the bedside table. The ergonomic, compact shape sits comfortably in one hand, the motor runs quietly, and USB-C recharging means you are never hunting for a proprietary cable. A full two-hour charge delivers up to 1.5 hours of play, and the included storage bag, USB-C cable, and user manual round out a thoughtfully complete package backed by a 3-year manufacturer warranty.

Aer by Dame features:

• Air-pulse technology designed to simulate the sensation of oral sex
• 5 intensity levels and 5 pulsation patterns for fully customisable stimulation
• Flexible silicone mouth for a comfortable, full clitoral seal
• Made from medical-grade silicone (external) and ABS plastic (internal components)
• Fully waterproof for bath and shower play
• USB-C rechargeable — 2-hour charge delivers up to 1.5 hours of use
• Quiet motor ideal for discreet use and travel
• Includes USB-C cable, storage bag, and user manual
• 3-year manufacturer warranty

Specifications / Size & material

• Height: 4.66 in / 118.4 mm
• Width: 1.46 in / 37 mm
• Mouth to back: 1.95 in / 49.5 mm
• Flexible mouth opening: 0.5 in x 0.8 in / 12.7 mm x 20.3 mm
• Material (external): Medical-grade silicone
• Material (internal components): ABS plastic
• Body-safety: Medical-grade silicone is non-porous, phthalate-free, and hypoallergenic
• Waterproof: Fully submersible
• Charge time: Approximately 2 hours via USB-C
• Battery life: Up to 1.5 hours of use per charge
• Warranty: 3-year manufacturer warranty

Intensity & Experience Level

Level: Beginner — Sensation: Suction / air-pulse

The Aer's non-contact stimulation is gentle enough for first-time toy users or those sensitive to strong vibration, while its five intensity levels and five pulsation patterns mean it grows with your experience. Because the airflow never directly touches the clitoris, it is one of the most approachable and forgiving paths into clitoral stimulation available.

Who is this product for?

• Fans of oral-like sensation: Anyone who loves fluttering, suction-style stimulation on the clitoris and wants to replicate that feeling on demand.
• Beginners and minimal-contact seekers: Those who prefer toys without deep vibration or penetration and want a gentle, non-intimidating introduction to solo play.
• Busy users and travellers: People who need a quiet, compact, waterproof device that is ready to go whether at home in the shower or away on a trip.
• Those exploring new pathways to pleasure: Anyone curious about air-pulse technology as a fresh, low-pressure way to discover what works for their body.
• Users with sensitivity concerns: Those experiencing decreased arousal response, vaginal dryness, or post-menopause changes who benefit from gentle, friction-free clitoral stimulation.

How to use the Aer by Dame?

1. Charge fully via the included USB-C cable before first use — the indicator light turns off when the battery is fully charged, taking approximately 2 hours.
2. Apply water-based lubricant to the clitoral area to enhance the seal and intensify the airflow sensation.
3. Power on using the power button, then use the plus and minus controls to scroll through the 5 intensities and 5 pulsation patterns.
4. Position the silicone mouth directly over the clitoris to form a comfortable seal — adjust the angle gradually until the pulses feel strongest and most pleasurable.
5. Comfort checkpoint: Start on the lowest intensity setting and breathe steadily; if the sensation feels too intense or uncomfortable at any point, step down an intensity level or reposition the mouth opening.
6. Explore patterns by cycling through pulsation modes to find your preferred rhythm — there is no rush, and switching modes keeps stimulation feeling fresh.
7. Stop or release: Press and hold the power button to turn the device off immediately, or simply lift it away from the body to break the seal and pause stimulation at any time.

Techniques & ways to play

• Solo — classic position: Lie on your back with legs spread for the easiest access, steadiest hold, and full visibility of placement.
• Solo — supported position: Prop yourself on pillows or try a butterfly position to relax your arms and pelvis while the Aer does the work.
• Solo — side-lying: Try a face-down or spooning position, guiding the Aer underhanded while your hips rest naturally — great for a more passive, melting experience.
• Partnered — foreplay and teasing: A partner can hold and direct the Aer during foreplay, controlling intensity and pattern while you focus entirely on sensation.
• Partnered — simultaneous play: Use the Aer on the clitoris during penetrative or manual partnered sex for layered stimulation without interference.
• Dom/sub dynamic: The partner holding the Aer controls all intensity and pulsation changes — agree on a clear signal or safeword before play begins, and check in before escalating beyond the starting intensity.

Pairs well with / Complete the scene

• Water-based lubricant: Required for optimal seal and comfort — choose a quality water-based formula to protect the silicone surface.
• Toy cleaner: A non-alcoholic, silicone-safe toy cleaner makes post-play hygiene quick and thorough.
• Blindfold or sensory accessories: Removing visual input heightens every airflow pulse during solo or partnered use.
• Massage candles or warming oil (external use only): Set a full sensory scene before introducing the Aer as the centrepiece stimulator.
• Collections to explore: Dame product range; premium rechargeable vibrators and external stimulators.

How to clean and care

Cleaning: After every use, rinse the Aer with warm water and clean with mild soap or a non-alcoholic toy cleaner. Pay particular attention to clearing the nozzle opening of any residue.

Drying: Pat dry with a soft, lint-free towel and ensure the mouth and nozzle area are fully dry before storing.

Lubricant compatibility: Use water-based lubricants only. Silicone-based lubricants can degrade the medical-grade silicone surface and should be avoided entirely.

Storage: Keep the Aer in the included storage pouch in a cool, dry place away from direct sunlight. Store separately from other silicone toys to prevent surface interaction.

Additional information

• Versatility: Suitable for solo pleasure, warm-up stimulation, or as a teasing tool during partnered sex — no penetration required at any stage.
• Accessibility: Lightweight design and single-handed operation make the Aer well suited for users with limited wrist strength or reduced dexterity.
• Sensitivity support: Targeted air pulses can help reawaken clitoral sensitivity without overstimulating delicate tissue.
• Friction-free stimulation: The non-contact airflow design eliminates friction entirely, making it a considered option for those experiencing vaginal dryness or post-menopause sensitivity.
• Exploration-friendly: The gradual intensity range and pattern variety encourage experimentation at your own pace, with no pressure to escalate.

Special considerations / warnings

• Mobility: One hand is needed to hold and aim the device over the clitoris — lying back with legs open generally provides the most accessible position for achieving a comfortable seal.
• Dexterity: Operation requires the ability to press small buttons and hold the device steadily; the light overall weight reduces hand fatigue during extended use.
• Reach: Some users may need to experiment with body position or use supportive pillows to maintain the correct angle for the best airflow seal.
• Charging and travel: USB-C charging is broadly compatible, but international travellers should carry an appropriate wall adapter as one may not be included.
• Lubricant warning: Never use silicone-based lubricants with this product — doing so will damage the silicone surface and void the warranty.
• Seal and suction: Do not force a tight seal or use at maximum intensity for an extended period without checking comfort — reduce intensity or reposition if any discomfort, numbness, or irritation occurs.

18+ only. For consensual adult use.