Guides

Riding Crops in BDSM: What a Crop Is, What It F...

What a riding crop is in BDSM and how it differs from a crop whip, the parts (shaft, keeper, handle) and what each does, what a crop feels like, why...

How to Choose a Spanking Paddle: Wood, Leather,...

How to choose a spanking paddle: what the materials feel like (leather, wood, silicone, rubber, acrylic, fabric), shape and size and why they matter, sting versus thud by paddle, the...

How to Give a Spanking: Erotic Spanking for Beg...

How to give a spanking step by step: what OTK spanking is and the positions, where on the buttocks to aim and where not, the hand shapes (cupped, flat, fingers)...

Impact Play 101: Spanking, Paddles, Crops, Flog...

What impact play is in BDSM and kink, what a spanking is and why people like it (including why men like spanking), sting versus thud, every implement from the hand...

How to Set Up a Sex Room or Home Dungeon: Layou...

How to set up a sex room or play room at home, from a corner of a bedroom to a converted spare room: the essentials every play space needs, the...

Door Sex Swings: How to Use, Adjust, and Get th...

How a door sex swing works and what door it needs, how to hang it, how to adjust a door sex swing for your heights, the positions that work (standing,...