Collection: Sex toy essentials

What should I look for in a toy cleaner for BDSM gear?

The right cleaner depends on the materials you are working with. For non-porous toys made from silicone, glass, stainless steel or hard plastic, a pH-balanced, antibacterial toy cleaner is a reliable everyday choice. Porous materials such as certain rubbers or leathers need cleaners specifically formulated for those surfaces, since harsh chemicals can degrade them over time. Always check that the cleaner is free from parabens, glycerin and harsh alcohols, which can irritate sensitive skin and break down toy materials. Rinse thoroughly after cleaning and allow items to dry completely before storage.

How should I store bondage gear, restraints and impact toys safely?

Lockable storage is strongly recommended for several reasons: it protects your gear from dust, light and accidental damage, and it keeps your collection private and out of reach of anyone who has not consented to encounter it. Separate compartments or pouches help prevent materials from rubbing against one another, which can cause scratching or transfer of oils between surfaces. Leather items benefit from breathable fabric bags rather than airtight containers, which can trap moisture and cause mildew.

How do I keep my e-stim units, vibrators and battery-powered toys charged and ready?

Using the correct charger or adapter for each device is essential. Mismatched voltage or incompatible connectors can damage internal batteries, shorten the lifespan of your toy or, in rare cases, create a safety hazard. Keep a dedicated charging station as part of your pre-scene ritual so that every toy is at full power when you need it. After a scene, charge your devices before storing them rather than leaving them to drain fully, as deep discharge cycles can reduce battery capacity over time.

How often should I clean my toys and gear, and when exactly?

Clean every item before and after each use, without exception. This protects both partners from the transfer of bacteria or bodily fluids and extends the life of your equipment. For scenes involving multiple partners or fluid exchange, non-porous toys that can be fully sterilized are the safest choice. Leather and fabric items that cannot be fully disinfected should be used with barriers where relevant, and cleaned according to the manufacturer's guidance after every session.

Are these accessories discreetly packaged and shipped?

Yes. All orders from The BDSM Store are shipped in plain, unmarked packaging with no external branding or product descriptions that would reveal the contents. Billing descriptions are also kept discreet. If you have specific concerns about packaging or delivery, our customer service team is happy to assist before you place your order.