Lovense

Lovense turns your smartphone into a control panel for desire. Each app-connected device lets a Dominant set the pace from across the room or across the world, dialing intensity up or down while a submissive surrenders to every pulse, pattern and whispered command.

From discreet wearables worn in public to powerful toys built for longer scenes, our curated Lovense range is chosen for reliable connectivity, body-safe materials and programmable precision that deepens every dynamic, whether you are exploring remote play, orgasm control or a new protocol together.

Buying guide

What makes Lovense toys a good fit for power exchange and BDSM dynamics?

Lovense devices are built around remote and app-based control, which translates naturally into Dominant and submissive play. A Dominant partner can take full command of their submissive's pleasure from anywhere in the same room or across the world, setting patterns, locking out manual control, and syncing responses to voice or sound. This creates a layer of consensual control that reinforces the dynamic without requiring physical proximity. For solo players exploring protocols and orgasm control, the app's scheduling and restriction features add meaningful structure to a scene.

How do I negotiate app-controlled play safely before we begin?

Clear negotiation before any scene is essential. Discuss and agree on who holds app access, whether the wearer can request a pause, and how long sessions will last. Establish a safe signal that works even when verbal communication is not possible, such as a pre-agreed text word or a physical tap. Decide in advance whether the submissive partner will have their own device available as a failsafe. Revisit these agreements regularly, especially as you explore longer wear times or public play.

Are Lovense toys body-safe, and what materials are used?

Lovense manufactures its insertable and wearable devices from body-safe, non-porous silicone, ABS plastic, or a combination of both. Non-porous materials do not harbour bacteria and are far easier to clean thoroughly between uses. Always check the product listing for the specific materials used on the device you are considering, and avoid using silicone-based lubricants on silicone surfaces as they can degrade the material over time. Water-based lubricant is the recommended choice for all Lovense silicone toys.

How do I clean and care for my Lovense device?

Proper cleaning protects both partners and extends the life of the toy. Follow these steps after every use:

  • Remove any magnetic charging cable before cleaning.
  • Wash the toy with warm water and a dedicated toy cleaner or mild, fragrance-free soap.
  • For fully waterproof models, rinse thoroughly under running water.
  • Pat dry with a clean, lint-free cloth and allow to air dry completely before storing.
  • Store in a breathable pouch away from direct sunlight and extreme temperatures.
  • Never submerge charging ports or non-waterproof components.

Refer to the specific product instructions for waterproofing ratings before immersing any device.

What should aftercare look like when Lovense is part of a scene?

App-controlled play, especially extended teasing or orgasm denial sessions, can be emotionally and physically intense for both partners. After the scene ends, close the app and return full bodily autonomy to the wearer clearly and intentionally. Check in verbally about comfort and emotional state. Physical aftercare such as warmth, hydration, and gentle touch helps both Dominant and submissive decompress. Because remote play can blur the boundary between scene time and everyday life, a defined closing ritual helps both partners transition out of the dynamic cleanly and with care.