Sportsheets Sex & Mischief Ex's & Oh's Kiss Crop

The Sportsheets Sex & Mischief Ex's & Oh's Kiss Crop puts a flirtatious, seductive spin on the classic riding crop. Its standout feature is a 100% silicone lip-shaped tip that delivers a sharp, satisfying sting with every stroke — and if you apply a coat of lipstick to the tip before play, it leaves behind a perfect kiss-shaped imprint on your partner's skin for a visual reminder of your affection. The shaft is constructed from a combination of fibreglass and ABS with zinc alloy hardware, giving it a firm, responsive flex that translates energy efficiently into each smack. A nylon wrist loop at the handle keeps the crop secure during use and makes it easy to hang for storage. The result is a crop that is as visually playful as it is physically stimulating.

Ex's & Oh's Kiss Crop features:

• Silicone lip-shaped tip shaped to deliver a focused, stinging impact
• Leaves a kiss-shaped mark on skin when lipstick is applied to the tip
• Firm fibreglass and ABS shaft construction for responsive flex and control
• Zinc alloy hardware for durability and a quality feel
• Nylon wrist loop for secure grip during play and convenient storage
• Bold red colourway for a visually dramatic scene aesthetic

Specifications / Size & material

• Brand: Sportsheets (Sex & Mischief line)
• Color: Red
• Tip material: 100% silicone (lip-shaped)
• Shaft material: Fibreglass (25%) and ABS plastic (20%)
• Hardware: Zinc alloy (15%)
• Loop material: Nylon (5%)
• Full material composition: 35% silicone, 25% fibreglass, 20% ABS, 15% zinc alloy, 5% nylon
• Body safety: The silicone tip is body-safe and non-porous; the crop is not intended for internal use

Intensity & Experience Level

Level: Beginner to Intermediate — Sensation: Stingy

The lip-shaped silicone tip concentrates impact into a small surface area, producing a sharp, stinging sensation rather than a broad thud — making it more intense than a paddle of equivalent size but still very manageable for newcomers who start light. The fibreglass shaft provides enough flex to absorb over-swing, so beginners can build confidence without the crop feeling unwieldy, while more experienced players can escalate force for a stronger bite.

Who is this product for?

• Playful beginners: Anyone curious about impact play who wants a fun, non-intimidating entry point with a novelty visual element.
• Couples adding teasing to their dynamic: Partners who enjoy light discipline scenes and want an interactive, lipstick-kiss twist to heighten anticipation.
• Dominant partners: Those who appreciate a prop that doubles as a mark-leaving tool, reinforcing possession and control in a consensual D/s dynamic.
• Gift buyers: The playful design and colourful aesthetic make this an accessible, conversation-starting gift for kink-curious partners.
• Experienced impact players: Those wanting a crop with a distinctive sting profile and a creative lipstick-marking technique to add to their toolkit.

How to use the Ex's & Oh's Kiss Crop?

1. Negotiate and consent: Discuss impact play boundaries, agree on a safeword or signal, and establish which body areas are in and out of play before the session begins.
2. Optional lipstick prep: Apply lipstick generously to the silicone lip-shaped tip if you want to leave kiss marks — reapply between strikes for a fresh imprint each time.
3. Secure the wrist loop: Slip the nylon loop over your wrist so the crop cannot be dropped or lost during play.
4. Start light: Begin with gentle, controlled taps on fleshy areas (buttocks, upper thighs) to warm the skin and gauge your partner's response.
5. Comfort checkpoint: After the first few strikes, check in verbally — ask how the sensation feels and adjust force or location based on feedback.
6. Escalate gradually: Increase intensity in small increments, pausing to observe your partner's reaction and continuing to honour safeword signals at all times.
7. Stop and aftercare: At any safeword or sign of distress, stop immediately. Inspect any marked skin, soothe with gentle touch or a cool cloth, and move into aftercare — reassurance, warmth, and hydration as needed.

Techniques & ways to play

• Solo sensation mapping: Use on yourself to explore which body areas respond most to a stinging tip before introducing a partner.
• Lipstick marking game: Apply a new shade of lipstick to the tip before each round; count or photograph the kiss marks as a playful record of the session.
• Warm-up tool: Use light taps at the start of a longer impact scene to bring blood to the surface before switching to heavier implements.
• Teasing and anticipation: Trail the flat of the tip slowly across skin between strikes to build suspense — the contrast between anticipation and sudden sting heightens sensation.
• Dom/sub control dynamic: The Dominant holds and directs the crop entirely; the submissive's safeword is always active and must be honoured instantly — escalation only continues with ongoing enthusiastic consent.

Pairs well with / Complete the scene

• Complementary restraints: Wrist or ankle cuffs to keep a partner positioned during impact play
• Blindfold: Removing sight heightens anticipation of each strike and intensifies the stinging sensation
• Spanking paddle: Alternate between the crop's focused sting and a paddle's broader thud for varied sensation play
• Lipstick or body-safe paint: Required consumable for the kiss-marking technique — use a colour that contrasts well with your partner's skin tone
• Collections: Sportsheets Sex & Mischief line; Paddles, Whips & Ticklers collection at The BDSM Store

How to clean and care

Wipe the silicone lip tip after each use with a toy cleaner or a cloth dampened with warm water and mild soap, then wipe dry. Do not submerge the crop, as the fibreglass shaft and metal hardware are not waterproof. If lipstick has been applied to the tip, remove residue thoroughly with soap and water to prevent staining. Allow the crop to air-dry fully before storage. Store hanging by the wrist loop or laid flat in a cool, dry location away from direct sunlight to preserve the shaft's flex and the silicone tip's shape. Do not use silicone-based products on the silicone tip; water-based formulations are safe if the tip comes into contact with lubricated skin.

Additional information

The combination of a fibreglass shaft and ABS construction gives this crop durability well beyond its novelty appearance — it is built to handle repeated use without warping or losing responsiveness. The zinc alloy hardware adds longevity to the handle assembly. While designed primarily as an impact toy, the crop's slim profile and light weight make it easy to manoeuvre in a range of positions, adding versatility to scenes. The wrist loop doubles as a hanging loop, making discreet storage straightforward.

Special considerations / warnings

• Avoid sensitive areas: Do not strike the spine, kidneys, tailbone, joints, neck, face, or any area over bones. Focus impact on well-padded, fleshy areas such as the buttocks and upper thighs.
• Skin integrity: Do not use on broken, irritated, or sunburned skin. Check for marks or bruising during play and stop if skin integrity is compromised.
• Lipstick safety: If applying lipstick to the tip, use a product you are confident is safe for skin contact. Avoid areas where lipstick residue could contact mucous membranes.
• Not waterproof: Do not submerge; the shaft and hardware may be damaged by prolonged moisture exposure.
• Circulatory or nerve conditions: Individuals with impaired circulation, neuropathy, or skin conditions that affect sensation should exercise caution with impact play and consult a medical professional if unsure.
• Safeword required: Always establish and honour a clear safeword or signal before any impact play session.

18+ only. For consensual adult use.