Eye of Love Matchmaker Black Diamond Attract Her Massage Candle

The Eye of Love Matchmaker Black Diamond Attract Her Massage Candle is a luxurious 3-in-1 experience designed to set the mood, hydrate the skin, and melt into a warm, skin-safe massage oil — all in one vessel. Crafted with a shea butter base and blended natural oils, the candle burns down into a pool of nourishing, comfortable-temperature oil that can be poured directly onto the skin for a sensual massage or used as an everyday moisturizer. The fragrance was created in collaboration with Millionaire Matchmaker Patti Stanger and opens with bold notes of cedar, blackcurrant, and lemon, settling into warm undertones of oak, white amber, and musk. High-quality vegan pheromones are infused into the formula to subtly enhance attraction, while the shea butter and natural oil base leave skin feeling soft and hydrated long after the massage ends. The wax is specially formulated to melt at a skin-safe temperature — it will never burn.

Eye of Love Matchmaker Black Diamond Attract Her Massage Candle features:

• 3-in-1 function: atmosphere-setting candle, daily moisturizer, and sensual massage oil
• Scent profile: cedar, blackcurrant, and lemon top notes with oak, white amber, and musk undertones
• Skin-nourishing base: shea butter and natural oils for deep hydration and softness
• Vegan pheromones: high-quality, cruelty-free pheromones blended in to enhance attraction
• Skin-safe temperature: wax melts into warm oil that will not burn the skin
• Vegan-friendly formula: suitable for those following a vegan lifestyle

Specifications / Size & material

• Weight: 122 g / 4.3 oz
• Material: Shea butter and natural oils
• Body safety: Shea butter and natural oil base; vegan pheromones; not intended for internal use
• Scent: Cedar, blackcurrant, lemon, oak, white amber, musk
• Pheromones: Vegan, high-quality

Intensity & Experience Level

Level: Beginner | Sensation: Temperature / sensory

This candle is exceptionally approachable — lighting a candle and enjoying a warm-oil massage requires no prior experience and presents virtually no learning curve. The gentle warmth and soothing fragrance make it a forgiving, low-risk introduction to sensory and massage play.

Who is this product for?

• Sensual explorers: anyone looking to elevate romantic encounters with atmosphere, fragrance, and touch-based connection
• Couples seeking intimacy: partners who want a ritualistic, shared experience that builds closeness through massage and scent
• Self-care enthusiasts: those who want a dual-purpose product that doubles as a nourishing daily moisturizer
• Candle lovers: people who appreciate fine fragrance and want their ambiance-setting candle to do double duty
• Vegan and natural-lifestyle shoppers: individuals who prioritise cruelty-free, plant-based ingredients in their intimate products

How to use the Eye of Love Matchmaker Black Diamond Attract Her Massage Candle?

1. Trim the wick to approximately 0.5 cm (0.2 inches) before the first use and before each subsequent lighting to minimise smoke and residue.
2. Place the candle on a stable, heat-safe surface and light it.
3. Allow the candle to burn until the wax melts into a pool of warm oil — this takes approximately 20 minutes.
4. Extinguish the flame fully and allow a brief moment for the oil to cool slightly.
5. Comfort checkpoint: dip a fingertip into the oil pool and test the temperature on the inside of your wrist — it should feel pleasantly warm, never hot.
6. Pour a small amount of the warm oil onto your hands or directly onto your partner's skin.
7. Massage the oil in gently using your preferred technique, or apply as a stand-alone moisturizer.
8. Stop/release step: if at any point the oil feels too warm or causes discomfort, stop application immediately and allow the skin to cool; do not reapply until the oil temperature has dropped to a comfortable level.

Techniques & ways to play

• Solo self-care: pour a small amount of warm oil onto hands and massage into arms, legs, or feet as a nourishing moisturizing ritual after a bath or shower
• Face-to-face partner massage: position yourselves facing each other for eye contact, presence, and deeper emotional connection while you work the warm oil across the chest and shoulders
• Back massage: have your partner lie face-down and use the warm oil to release tension from the back and shoulder muscles — ideal after a long day
• Leg and foot massage: pour oil into cupped hands and work from the feet upward, easing tired muscles and heightening tactile awareness
• Dom/sub dynamic: the partner holding the candle and controlling the pour naturally holds the sensory lead — agree beforehand on pressure, areas, and a clear signal to pause or stop before escalating intensity

Pairs well with / Complete the scene

• Massage accessories: a soft, oil-safe massage blanket or towel to protect bedding during use
• Blindfolds or eye masks: heighten the sensory experience by removing sight and focusing attention on scent and touch
• Complementary fragrance products: other Eye of Love pheromone-infused items to layer the scent experience
• Collections: Massage & Sensory Play, Romantic Atmosphere & Ambiance

How to clean and care

• Wick maintenance: trim the wick to approximately 0.5 cm (0.2 inches) before each use to prevent smoke, soot, and residue buildup
• Skin clean-up: the shea butter and oil base absorbs readily into skin; any excess can be gently wiped away with a warm, damp cloth
• Lube compatibility: the oil is intended for external skin use only and is not suitable for internal use or use with latex barriers
• Storage: store in a cool, dry place away from direct sunlight and heat sources to preserve the scent integrity and prevent the wax from softening or melting unintentionally
• Container care: wipe the rim of the candle vessel clean of any oil drips after each use to keep the surface tidy and prevent accidental slipping

Additional information

• Versatility: functions equally well for a romantic evening with a partner or as a solo self-care and moisturizing ritual
• Aromatherapy benefit: the cedar, amber, and musk fragrance blend provides a soothing, grounding ambiance that encourages relaxation
• Heightened sensation: the warmth of the oil can amplify tactile awareness, making massage strokes feel more connected and immersive
• Vegan-friendly: all ingredients, including the pheromones, are vegan and cruelty-free
• Skin conditioning: regular use as a moisturizer delivers the ongoing hydrating benefits of shea butter and natural oils

Special considerations / warnings

• Patch test: perform a patch test on a small area of skin before full use, as sensitivity to fragrance ingredients varies between individuals
• Temperature awareness: always test the oil temperature before applying to a partner's skin — never pour directly from a freshly extinguished candle without checking warmth first
• Fire safety: never leave a burning candle unattended; keep away from flammable materials, drafts, children, and pets
• External use only: this product is formulated for external skin use and is not intended for internal or intimate-area application
• Latex incompatibility: as an oil-based product, it will degrade latex condoms and barriers; do not use in combination with latex
• Fragrance sensitivity: individuals with known fragrance allergies or highly sensitive skin should review the ingredient list carefully before use
• 18+ only. For consensual adult use.