Blush M for Men Glow in the Dark Self-Lubricating Stroker

The Blush M for Men Soft + Wet Double Trouble Delight Glow Stroker is a versatile, dual-ended masturbator built for exploratory solo or partnered sessions. Its self-lubricating TPE material activates on contact with water or saliva, delivering a slippery, lifelike feel for up to 12 uses before you need to introduce a water-based lubricant. Two penetrable openings — one vaginal, one anal — let you switch sensations at will, while a textured interior with contours and bumps heightens every stroke. The open-ended, flexible design fits all sizes, and the glow-in-the-dark feature adds a playful visual element perfect for low-light sessions. At 5.25 inches long and 2.75 inches wide, it sits comfortably in hand yet is easy to prop between household items for hands-free thrusting when grip is limited.

M for Men Glow in the Dark Self-Lubricating Stroker features:

• Two penetrable ends — vaginal and anal openings for dual sensation exploration
• Glow-in-the-dark design for nighttime play
• Self-lubricating material activated by water or saliva for up to 12 uses
• Soft, flexible TPE construction with a realistic feel
• Textured interior with contours and bumps for heightened stimulation
• Open-ended design accommodates all sizes
• Can be hand-held or propped for hands-free use

Specifications / Size & material

• Length: 5.25 inches (13.3 cm)
• Width: 2.75 inches (7 cm)
• Material: TPE (thermoplastic elastomer)
• Body safety: TPE is phthalate-free and skin-soft; it is porous, so thorough cleaning after every use is essential
• Lubricant type: Water-based only (first 12 uses self-lubricating with water or saliva; water-based lube required after)
• Entry points: Dual — vaginal and anal
• Design: Open-ended, glow-in-the-dark

Intensity & Experience Level

Level: Beginner — Sensation: Textured / pressure

The self-lubricating feature and forgiving TPE sleeve make this an accessible entry point for stroker newcomers, while the dual-entry design and internal texture offer enough variety to keep more experienced users engaged. Pace and pressure are entirely self-directed, so it rewards both quick sessions and slower, edge-focused practice.

Who is this product for?

• Solo adventurers: Anyone who wants to explore vaginal and anal sensations from a single toy without committing to two separate purchases.
• Men seeking variety: Those who want to break out of a routine and experiment with different textures, openings, and positions during self-pleasure.
• People with decreased penile sensitivity: The textured interior with contours and bumps adds stimulation that can help those who need extra sensation to reach climax.
• Those practising ejaculation control: The stroker provides a controlled environment for learning body awareness and prolonging sessions — helpful for anyone working on timing.
• Users with limited hand mobility: The open-ended design can be propped between stable household objects, enabling thrust-based use without a continuous grip.

How to use the M for Men Glow in the Dark Self-Lubricating Stroker?

1. Activate lubrication: Wet the interior with water or saliva to trigger the self-lubricating effect and achieve a slippery, lifelike feel.
2. Warm it up (optional): Hold the stroker under warm running water for about a minute before use for an extra-realistic sensation.
3. Choose your entry: Select the vaginal or anal opening based on the sensation you want to explore at that moment.
4. Grip and guide: Hold the stroker firmly in hand and guide it at your preferred speed and angle, or prop it securely between stable household items for hands-free thrusting action.
5. Comfort checkpoint: Pause and check that the stimulation feels comfortable — adjust grip pressure or angle if needed, and add a light coating of water-based lubricant if the self-lubricating effect feels insufficient.
6. Experiment with pace: Vary your speed from slow and deliberate strokes to faster rhythms to discover what brings you the best sensation.
7. Transition lubrication: After approximately 12 uses, the self-lubricating effect diminishes — switch to a water-based lubricant to maintain smooth, comfortable play.
8. Stop and clean: When finished, remove the stroker, rinse immediately with warm water, and follow the full cleaning steps below before storing.

Techniques & ways to play

• Lying down (solo): Recline and experiment with different angles and pressure points to find your optimal stimulation zone.
• Sitting up (solo): Sit on the edge of a bed or chair and use your hands to guide the stroker for a blend of active control and relaxation.
• Mounted play (solo or limited mobility): Prop the stroker securely between sturdy household items and thrust into it, freeing both hands and reducing the need for sustained grip strength.
• Partnered use: Hand control of the stroker to a partner, letting them set the pace, pressure, and choice of opening — a straightforward way to incorporate a toy into partnered sessions.
• Dom/sub dynamic: The partner holding the stroker controls all stimulation — speed, angle, and which entry is used — while the receiving partner focuses entirely on sensation. Establish clear signals or a safeword before beginning, and check in before escalating intensity.
• Edge training: Use slow, deliberate strokes and pause just before climax to extend the session and build body awareness over time.

Pairs well with / Complete the scene

• Water-based lubricant: Essential after the self-lubricating capacity is exhausted — keep a bottle on hand for longer or repeated sessions.
• Toy cleaner: A dedicated antibacterial toy cleaner makes post-session hygiene faster and more thorough than soap alone.
• Blindfold: Removing visual input heightens tactile sensation and makes the dual-entry exploration feel more immersive.
• Cock ring: Worn during use to maintain firmness and extend sessions, pairing well with the edge-training technique.
• Collection: M for Men Soft + Wet range; Strokers & Masturbators collection at The BDSM Store.

How to clean and care

After every use, rinse both the interior and exterior thoroughly with warm water. Apply a mild soap or dedicated toy cleaner and work it through the interior channel, then rinse completely until no soap residue remains. Pat dry with a lint-free cloth and allow the stroker to air dry fully before storing — trapped moisture promotes bacterial growth in porous TPE. Store in a cool, dry place away from direct sunlight and keep it separate from other toys, especially those made from different materials, to prevent chemical interaction and material degradation. Inspect the stroker regularly for signs of tearing, stickiness, or discolouration; replace it if any deterioration is visible. Use only water-based lubricants — silicone-based and oil-based formulas will degrade TPE.

Additional information

The dual-entry design makes this one of the more versatile single-stroker options in its price range, effectively serving as two distinct experiences in one sleeve. The self-lubricating feature reduces reliance on external lube for the first dozen or so sessions, lowering the barrier to spontaneous use. The open-ended construction removes size restrictions, and the flexible TPE means it conforms naturally rather than requiring precise alignment. For users with grip strength limitations or reduced hand mobility, the propping method offers genuine accessibility without the cost of a dedicated mount. The textured interior also makes this a practical tool for those exploring sensitivity management or ejaculation timing.

Special considerations / warnings

• Hand and arm mobility required: Active grasping and stroking demand functional hand and arm movement; propping between household objects is an alternative but still requires reach to position and use the toy.
• Reach requirement: The user must be able to reach their own genitals comfortably to apply and remove the stroker.
• Cleaning mobility: Thorough post-use cleaning requires sufficient hand and arm mobility to manipulate the sleeve and rinse the interior channel.
• Porous material: TPE cannot be fully sterilised. Do not share this toy between partners without a new condom over the toy, and replace it if the surface shows any signs of degradation.
• Lubrication: Never use silicone-based or oil-based lubricants — they will break down the TPE material and may cause skin irritation.
• Ejaculation control note: This toy may assist with practising timing and body awareness, but premature ejaculation has many contributing factors; a stroker is not a medical treatment or guaranteed solution.
• Mounted play safety: If propping between household objects, ensure they are stable and cannot shift or fall during use.
• Material inspection: Regularly check for stickiness, tears, or colour changes and discontinue use if any are found.

18+ only. For consensual adult use.