Tail butt plugs

Step into the world of pet play with The BDSM Store's Tail Butt Plug collection, where surrender takes a beautifully animalistic form. Whether you're guiding a willing submissive into their persona or slipping into one yourself, each plug pairs a comfortable, flared-base insert with a flowing faux-fur or sleek silicone tail to make every role feel completely immersive.

From beginner-friendly tapers to fuller, more demanding fits, our range covers every stage of the journey. Choose fox, kitten, bunny or beyond, and let the tail become a symbol of trust, ownership and playful control between you and your partner.

Buying guide

What makes a tail butt plug safe for extended pet-play scenes?

Safety starts with two non-negotiable features: a firmly flared base and body-safe materials. A flared base prevents the plug from traveling beyond the intended depth, which is essential for anal wear. Look for plugs made from medical-grade silicone, stainless steel, or borosilicate glass, as these are non-porous, easy to sterilize, and will not degrade inside the body. Before any scene, both partners should agree on a time limit for wear, check in regularly, and establish a clear safeword or signal, especially if the wearer is in a role that involves restricted speech.

How do I choose the right size if I am new to butt plugs?

If you are exploring anal play for the first time, start with the smallest diameter available and prioritize a tapered tip, which allows gradual, comfortable insertion. The narrowed neck that sits at the entrance once the plug is inserted helps the body relax around it for sustained wear. As you become more comfortable over multiple sessions you can work toward wider girths and longer lengths. There is no rush, and patience here directly translates to more pleasurable play. Never force insertion; discomfort is a signal to pause, reassess, and use more lubricant.

What type of lubricant should I use with tail butt plugs?

The correct lubricant depends entirely on the plug material. For silicone plugs, always use a water-based lubricant, as silicone-based lubes can degrade the surface of silicone toys over time. For metal or glass tail plugs, both water-based and silicone-based lubricants are compatible. Regardless of material, use a generous amount and reapply as needed. The anal canal does not self-lubricate, so adequate lubrication is not optional, it is a core safety practice.

How do I negotiate and communicate expectations before a pet-play scene involving a tail plug?

Conversation before the scene is just as important as the play itself. Discuss the following with your partner or partners in advance:

  • How long the plug will be worn and whether check-ins will happen at set intervals
  • A safeword or non-verbal safe signal in case speaking is restricted by the scene
  • Any physical limitations, sensitivities, or health considerations
  • The specific role dynamic, for example which partner holds authority and what behaviors are expected
  • Aftercare preferences, including physical comfort and emotional reconnection once the scene ends

Clear negotiation protects everyone involved and allows both dominant and submissive partners to surrender to the experience with genuine confidence.

How do I clean and care for a tail butt plug after use?

Clean your plug immediately after every use. For non-motorized silicone, stainless steel, or glass plugs without the tail attachment, you can sterilize by boiling, using a 10 percent bleach solution, or running through a dishwasher without soap. For plugs with faux-fur or fabric tails that cannot be submerged, detach the tail if possible and hand-wash it gently, then wipe the plug portion thoroughly with a body-safe toy cleaner or mild soap and warm water. Allow all parts to dry completely before storing to prevent mildew or bacterial growth. Store the toy in a breathable pouch away from other toys to avoid material cross-contamination.