App & remote-controlled prostate toys

Hand the controls to someone who knows exactly how to use them. Our app and remote-controlled prostate toys transform any scene into a study in surrender, letting a dominant partner dial up teasing pulses, relentless rumbles or near-unbearable edges from across the room or across the city. Body-safe materials and whisper-quiet motors keep every session discreet without sacrificing intensity.

From slow, deliberate build-ups to breathless orgasm denial, these massagers are engineered for precision power exchange. Whether you crave total submission to a partner's fingertips or hands-free solo exploration, this collection places deep prostate pleasure firmly under command.

Buying guide

What makes app and remote-controlled prostate toys suited to power exchange?

The separation of control from sensation is at the heart of what makes these toys so compelling in a D/s context. The person holding the phone or remote decides when stimulation starts, how intense it becomes, and when it stops. The wearer experiences that stimulation without being able to predict or influence it directly. This dynamic maps naturally onto dominance and submission, whether you are in the same room or connected across any distance with an internet-enabled device.

How do my partner and I negotiate safe use before handing over control?

Negotiation before play is essential. Discuss and agree on:

  • A clear safeword or safe signal, including a non-verbal one if the wearer may be restrained or gagged.
  • Session time limits and any planned breaks.
  • Intensity boundaries, including whether certain vibration patterns or levels are off the table.
  • How the dominant will check in, especially during longer or long-distance sessions.
  • Aftercare needs for both partners once the scene ends.

Writing these agreements down or recording a voice memo can help both partners feel anchored to what was agreed.

Are the materials in these toys body-safe for internal use?

Prostate toys intended for internal use should always be made from non-porous, body-safe materials. Look for silicone, ABS plastic, or stainless steel, as these do not absorb bacteria or degrade with cleaning. Check each product listing for its specific material information before purchasing, and avoid toys that do not clearly state what they are made from.

What do I need to know about using these toys safely for the first time?

A few important points for first-time users:

  • Always use a generous amount of lubricant formulated for the toy's material. Silicone toys require water-based lubricant; silicone-based lubricant can degrade silicone surfaces.
  • Start at the lowest vibration intensity and allow your body time to adjust before increasing.
  • Every prostate toy designed for anal use must have a flared base or retrieval loop to prevent the toy from travelling beyond reach.
  • Never play through pain. Discomfort is a signal to stop, remove the toy, and reassess.
  • If you are new to prostate play, shorter sessions allow you to understand how your body responds before extending scene duration.

How do I clean and store my app or remote-controlled prostate toy?

Thorough cleaning after every use is non-negotiable for both hygiene and toy longevity. Remove or cover any electronic components according to the manufacturer's instructions, since most devices are not fully submersible. Wash the toy with warm water and a dedicated toy cleaner or mild unscented soap, paying attention to ridges and seams. Allow it to dry completely before storage, and keep it in a lint-free pouch or case away from other toys that could scratch the surface. Check the product listing for the specific waterproofing rating of each item before cleaning.