Collection: Sex toys for sex rooms

How do I choose the right gear to build out my sex room or dungeon?

Start by mapping out the kinds of scenes and power dynamics you want to explore, then build your collection in layers. A solid foundation typically includes versatile restraints such as adjustable cuffs and a spreader bar, one or two impact tools at a beginner-friendly weight, and a reliable sensation piece like a pinwheel or soft flogger. From there you can layer in more specialised items, such as suspension hardware, heavier impact toys, or furniture anchors, once you and your partner have negotiated their place in your dynamic. Buying a few quality pieces you understand thoroughly will serve you far better than a large haul you are not yet ready to use safely.

What materials are safest for body-contact dungeon gear?

Body safety depends on where and how an item makes contact. For restraints and wearables, look for:

• Full-grain or vegetable-tanned leather, which is durable and skin-friendly when properly conditioned
• Medical-grade or body-safe silicone for any item that contacts mucous membranes
• Powder-coated or stainless steel hardware free from sharp edges or burrs
• Nylon webbing that is thick enough not to cut into skin under tension

Avoid items with unknown coatings, strong chemical odours, or hardware that shows signs of rust or flaking. When in doubt, reach out to us and we will help you identify the right product for your intended use.

How should negotiation and consent work before a dungeon scene?

Thorough negotiation is the foundation of any healthy power exchange, regardless of how experienced you are. Before a scene discuss hard limits, soft limits, desired sensations, health considerations such as circulation issues or skin conditions relevant to restraint or impact play, and a clear safeword system. Many players use a traffic-light system where green means continue, yellow means slow down or check in, and red means stop immediately. It is equally important to agree on non-verbal signals for situations where verbal communication is restricted. Written negotiation notes or a shared checklist can be especially useful in a dedicated play space where scenes may become more intense or extended.

What is the difference between beginner and advanced dungeon gear, and how do I know which level suits me?

Beginner gear is generally designed with more forgiving adjustability, lighter weight or intensity, and simpler mechanics, so you can focus on learning technique and reading your partner's responses. Advanced gear, such as heavy suspension kits, precision single-tail whips, or complex bondage harnesses, requires a meaningful amount of practice, anatomy knowledge, and often formal skill-building before it can be used responsibly. A good rule of thumb is to spend several sessions becoming genuinely comfortable with a lighter or simpler version of any category before stepping up. If you are unsure where a specific product sits on that spectrum, our team is happy to guide you.

How do I clean and care for dungeon gear to keep it safe and long-lasting?

Care routines vary by material, so always check product-specific guidance, but these general principles apply widely:

• Leather: wipe down with a damp cloth after each use, allow to dry away from direct heat, and condition regularly with a leather-safe product to prevent cracking
• Silicone toys: wash with warm water and mild soap or a dedicated toy cleaner; non-motorised solid silicone pieces can be boiled or run through the dishwasher on the top rack
• Metal hardware and impact tools: wipe clean, dry thoroughly to prevent rust, and inspect for any chips, cracks, or rough edges before each use
• Nylon and fabric: hand wash with a gentle detergent and air dry completely before storage

Store all gear in a cool, dry place away from direct sunlight, and keep sharp or weighted items separated to prevent damage to softer pieces. Regular inspection before each scene is a non-negotiable safety habit.