Large dildos

Some scenes call for something more commanding. Our large dildo collection is curated for players who crave depth, presence, and intensity in their power-exchange rituals. From thick, textured shafts to sleek oversized designs, each piece is chosen to amplify submission, push personal boundaries, and reward the trust placed between partners.

Whether a Dom selects the perfect implement to assert control or a sub chooses their own consensual challenge, these toys bring weight and authority to solo exploration and partnered play alike. Shop with confidence knowing every piece meets our standards for body-safe materials and meaningful sensation.

Buying guide

How do I choose the right size when shopping for a large dildo?

Start by being honest with yourself about your current experience level. If you are new to larger toys, choose something at the lower end of the XL range and work your way up gradually over multiple sessions. Measure any toys you already enjoy and use those dimensions as a baseline. Girth tends to feel more intense than length for most people, so pay attention to the diameter listed in each product description alongside the overall length. Discussing size preferences openly with a partner before a scene is also an essential part of the negotiation process.

What materials are safest for oversized insertable toys?

Body-safe, non-porous materials are the gold standard, especially for larger toys that create more surface contact. Look for:

  • 100% platinum-cure silicone - firm yet with a realistic give, non-porous, and easy to sterilize
  • Borosilicate glass - completely non-porous, temperature-play compatible, and very smooth for easier insertion
  • Stainless steel or aluminium - weighty, non-porous, and excellent for temperature play

Avoid jelly, rubber, or PVC materials, as these are porous and can harbour bacteria, which becomes a more significant concern with larger toys that may cause micro-tears in tissue.

How should a Dom and sub negotiate the use of a large dildo in a scene?

Negotiation is non-negotiable. Before any scene involving a large toy, both parties should discuss hard limits, soft limits, and any relevant anatomy or health considerations such as surgeries or sensitivities. Agree on a clear safeword or non-verbal safe signal, especially if the sub may be restrained. Talk about the pace of insertion, whether the sub wants to control depth themselves initially, and how long the scene might last. Checking in verbally throughout the scene is equally important, and the Dom should watch for non-verbal cues of genuine distress rather than pleasurable intensity.

What preparation and lubrication do I need for comfortable use?

Preparation makes the difference between an intense, pleasurable experience and an uncomfortable one. Take your time with warm-up using smaller toys before progressing to a larger size. Use a generous, body-safe lubricant and reapply frequently throughout the session. For silicone toys, use a water-based lubricant only, as silicone-based lubes can degrade silicone toy surfaces over time. For glass or steel, water-based or silicone-based lubricants are both suitable. Never rush insertion, and keep communication open so pace can be adjusted at any moment.

How do I clean and store a large dildo after a scene, and what does aftercare look like?

Cleaning should happen as soon as possible after use. Non-porous silicone, glass, and steel toys without electronic components can be washed with warm water and mild soap, or run through a dishwasher without detergent on the top rack. Store toys in a clean cloth bag or separate compartment to prevent silicone surfaces from touching each other, which can cause degradation over time. On the aftercare side, larger toys can create a more physically and emotionally intense experience, so allow time for both partners to decompress after the scene. This might include warmth, hydration, gentle touch, reassurance, and an open conversation about how the scene felt for everyone involved.