Dildos

Every scene deserves the right instrument of control. Our dildo collection spans realistic forms, sleek silhouettes, and boldly sculpted designs — each chosen to sharpen the dynamic between those who give and those who surrender. Pair them with restraints, commands, or quiet anticipation to build the kind of tension that leaves a lasting impression.

Whether you are exploring solo submission or directing a devoted partner, these pieces reward intention and trust in equal measure. Choose your tool, set the terms, and let the scene unfold exactly as you command.

Buying guide

How do I choose the right dildo for my experience level?

Start by considering girth and length honestly. Beginners generally do well with a slimmer profile and a smooth, non-textured surface, which allows the body to adjust gradually. More experienced players may seek pronounced veining, larger girths, or added features like pronounced heads for targeted internal stimulation. If you are incorporating a dildo into dominant and submissive dynamics, discuss size and intensity preferences with your partner before the scene so that both of you can negotiate boundaries and ensure the experience stays within agreed limits.

What materials are body-safe, and why does it matter?

Body-safe materials are non-porous, meaning they cannot harbour bacteria or absorb lubricants and bodily fluids over time. Look for:

  • 100% silicone - soft, flexible, and easy to sterilise
  • Borosilicate glass - firm, temperature-play compatible, and fully non-porous
  • Stainless steel - weighty, smooth, and autoclavable
  • Hard ABS plastic - rigid and non-porous, ideal for precise sensation

Avoid materials labelled simply as rubber, jelly, or PVC, as these can contain plasticisers that may cause irritation. When in doubt, always check the product listing for explicit material disclosure.

Which lubricant should I use?

The right lubricant depends on the material of your dildo. Water-based lubricant is compatible with every material and is the safest all-round choice. Silicone-based lubricant is longer-lasting and ideal for glass or steel toys, but it should never be used with silicone dildos as it can degrade the surface over time. Oil-based lubricant is not recommended for internal use with most toy materials and is incompatible with latex barriers. Always patch-test a new lubricant and reapply as needed during play.

How do I clean and store my dildo properly?

Cleaning immediately after use protects both the toy and your health. Non-motorised silicone, glass, and stainless steel toys can be boiled for three minutes or run through a dishwasher on the top rack without detergent to fully sterilise them. For all other toys, wash thoroughly with warm water and a dedicated toy cleaner or mild unscented soap, then rinse well and allow to air dry completely before storing. Store each dildo separately in a lint-free pouch or the original packaging to prevent materials from reacting with one another. Proper storage also keeps toys discreet and hygienic between scenes.

What should aftercare look like when dildos are used in power-exchange scenes?

Aftercare is an essential part of any BDSM scene, and penetrative play is no exception. After the scene ends, both partners should take time to reconnect physically and emotionally. This might include gentle touch, warm blankets, water, or simply talking through the experience. The submissive partner may feel physically sensitive or emotionally open following intense play, so checking in about comfort, hydration, and emotional state is important. Dominants can also experience their own emotional processing after a scene. Agreeing on what aftercare looks like before play begins is just as important as negotiating the scene itself.