Collection: Dildo accessories

What types of accessories are included in this collection, and how do I know which ones suit my setup?

This collection covers a range of add-ons designed to expand how you use a dildo during solo or partner play. Common categories include harnesses and strap-on systems, mounting and positioning devices, suction-cup bases, vibrating bullet attachments, and storage or hygiene accessories. To choose well, start by identifying what you already own: check whether your dildo has a flared base (necessary for harness or mount compatibility), a suction-cup base, or a vac-u-lock port. From there, match accessories to that specific design. If you are new to the collection, consider a versatile harness or a simple hands-free mount as a first addition before exploring more specialised attachments.

Are these accessories body-safe, and what materials should I look out for?

Body safety depends on the specific product, so always read individual item descriptions carefully. When an accessory comes into direct contact with skin or mucous membranes, prioritise materials such as body-safe silicone, ABS plastic, stainless steel, or cotton and nylon webbing for harnesses. Avoid porous materials that cannot be fully sterilised if you plan to share items between partners. If an attachment is used near intimate areas, confirm it is free from phthalates and other harmful plasticisers. When in doubt, check the product listing or contact our team before purchase.

How do harnesses and mounts work within a power-exchange dynamic, and what should I negotiate beforehand?

Harnesses and mounts shift control in ways that can be a powerful part of a dominance and submission dynamic. A harness allows a dominant partner to penetrate hands-free, while positioning mounts can place a submissive in a fixed, vulnerable stance. Before incorporating either into a scene, discuss and agree on the following with your partner or partners:

• Clear, enthusiastic consent for the specific acts involved
• A safe word or non-verbal safe signal, especially if movement will be restricted
• Desired intensity, depth, and pace boundaries
• How long the scene will last and how to pause or stop at any point

Revisiting these agreements before every session, not just the first one, is considered best practice in consensual kink play.

How do I clean and care for dildo accessories to keep them hygienic and long-lasting?

Cleaning method depends on the material. Fabric harnesses with removable O-rings can often be machine-washed on a gentle cycle; always remove any metal hardware first and allow to air dry fully to prevent mildew. Hard plastic or silicone attachments that are non-motorised and fully waterproof can be washed with warm water and a toy-safe antibacterial cleaner, or boiled briefly if they are 100 percent silicone with no electronic components. Vibrating or motorised attachments should be wiped down with a damp cloth and toy cleaner rather than submerged. Store accessories separately in breathable pouches to prevent material degradation and cross-contamination between different toy materials.

Is purchasing from The BDSM Store discreet, and how is my order packaged and billed?

We understand that privacy matters. All orders are shipped in plain, unmarked packaging with no external branding or product descriptions visible on the outside. Billing statements use a neutral business name so that nothing identifying appears on your bank or card statement. If you have specific concerns about delivery or discretion, our customer service team is happy to assist before you place your order.