Best anal sex toy for men

Discover the best anal sex toys for men at The BDSM Store, where every plug, bead and prostate massager is chosen to deepen sensation and sharpen the edge of power exchange. Whether you are guiding a scene with firm control or surrendering completely to every wave of pleasure, our curated selection meets you at exactly the intensity you choose.

From sleek beginners' plugs to advanced prostate stimulators built for prolonged, commanding play, each piece is crafted from body-safe materials and designed to make every moment of exploration feel intentional, consensual and deeply satisfying.

Buying guide

How do I choose the right anal toy as a beginner?

If you are new to anal play, start with a smaller plug or a set of graduated anal beads. Look for toys with a flared base or retrieval ring, which is a non-negotiable safety feature that prevents the toy from traveling beyond reach. A tapered tip makes initial insertion more comfortable. Give yourself time to relax, use plenty of body-safe lubricant, and never rush the process. Comfort and curiosity are the best guides at any experience level.

What materials are safest for anal toys?

Body-safe materials are essential for anal use because the tissue is highly absorbent. Prioritize toys made from:

  • Medical-grade silicone - non-porous, hypoallergenic, and easy to sterilize
  • Stainless steel - firm, weighty, and fully sterilizable
  • Borosilicate glass - smooth, non-porous, and compatible with all lubricants

Avoid porous materials such as jelly rubber or PVC, which can harbor bacteria even after cleaning. When in doubt, check the product listing for explicit material certifications.

What kind of lubricant should I use?

The anal canal does not self-lubricate, so generous lubricant use is always necessary. Water-based lubricants are compatible with all toy materials including silicone. Silicone-based lubricants last longer and are excellent for steel or glass toys, but they should not be used with silicone toys as they can degrade the surface over time. Oil-based lubricants are not recommended with latex barriers or certain toy materials. When in doubt, water-based is the universally safe choice.

How do prostate massagers differ from standard plugs, and how does that fit into power-exchange play?

Prostate massagers are specifically curved or angled to target the prostate gland, which sits a few inches inside toward the front of the body. This can produce a deeply intense internal sensation that differs significantly from the fuller feeling of a plug. In a power-exchange dynamic, a prostate massager can be an exceptional tool for orgasm control, edging, or sensation-focused submission scenes. Standard plugs, on the other hand, focus on the feeling of fullness and stretch, making them popular for long-wear scenes or as part of a dominance ritual. Discuss with your partner or within your own solo practice which type of stimulation you are seeking before choosing.

How do I clean and care for my anal toys after use?

Thorough cleaning after every use is essential. The method depends on the material:

  • Non-motorized silicone, stainless steel, and borosilicate glass - can be boiled for up to three minutes, run through a dishwasher without detergent, or wiped with a 10 percent bleach solution, then rinsed well
  • Motorized silicone toys - remove or cover the motor component and wash the silicone surfaces with warm water and mild, fragrance-free soap, or use a dedicated toy cleaner

Always dry toys completely before storage and keep them in individual pouches or cases to prevent cross-contamination and surface damage. Regular inspection for cracks, chips, or surface changes is also good practice before any use.