{"product_id":"pipedream-spread-em-bar-cuff-set","title":"Pipedream Spread 'Em Bar \u0026 Cuff Set","description":"\u003cp\u003eThe Pipedream Spread 'Em Bar \u0026amp; Cuff Set brings a new dimension of control and positioning to your play. Built around a pair of sturdy, adjustable metal spreader bars, the set is engineered to hold wrists and ankles exactly where you want them, preventing any attempt to close thighs or bring wrists together. Each cuff is swivel-mounted, so there is just enough give to keep the experience comfortable without sacrificing restraint. A removable nylon support strap extends the set's versatility further, opening up elevated or angled positioning options beyond flat-on-the-bed play. Every component packs neatly into the included carrying case, making the set just as at home in a hotel room as in your own bedroom.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003ch2\u003eSpread 'Em Bar \u0026amp; Cuff Set features:\u003c\/h2\u003e\u003cul\u003e\n\u003cli\u003e\n\u003cstrong\u003eAdjustable bars:\u003c\/strong\u003e Metal spreader bars adjust to the desired length and lock in place for a secure hold\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003e\n\u003cstrong\u003eAdjustable cuffs:\u003c\/strong\u003e Wrist and ankle cuffs fasten to a secure fit, preventing closure during play\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003e\n\u003cstrong\u003eSwivel-mounted cuffs:\u003c\/strong\u003e Allow a degree of natural movement, adding flexibility without compromising restraint\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003e\n\u003cstrong\u003eRemovable nylon support strap:\u003c\/strong\u003e Detaches for standard use or attaches for expanded positioning possibilities\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003e\n\u003cstrong\u003eDurable metal construction:\u003c\/strong\u003e Sturdy and reliable for consistent restraint\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003e\n\u003cstrong\u003eCushioned cuffs:\u003c\/strong\u003e Lined for comfort against skin during extended wear\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003e\n\u003cstrong\u003eCarrying case included:\u003c\/strong\u003e Discreet, convenient storage and transport\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003c\/ul\u003e\u003ch2\u003eSpecifications \/ Size \u0026amp; material\u003c\/h2\u003e\u003cul\u003e\n\u003cli\u003e\n\u003cstrong\u003eBars:\u003c\/strong\u003e Adjustable metal spreader bars\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003e\n\u003cstrong\u003eStraps:\u003c\/strong\u003e Nylon support strap (removable)\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003e\n\u003cstrong\u003eCuffs:\u003c\/strong\u003e Cushioned cuffs for wrists and ankles\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003e\n\u003cstrong\u003eIncludes:\u003c\/strong\u003e Spreader bars, wrist cuffs, ankle cuffs, nylon support strap, carrying case\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003e\n\u003cstrong\u003eBody safety:\u003c\/strong\u003e Metal bars with cushioned, nylon-strapped cuffs; no powered components\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003c\/ul\u003e\u003ch2\u003eIntensity \u0026amp; Experience Level\u003c\/h2\u003e\u003cp\u003e\u003cstrong\u003eLevel: Beginner\u003c\/strong\u003e  |  \u003cstrong\u003eSensation: Restrictive\u003c\/strong\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eThe Spread 'Em Bar \u0026amp; Cuff Set is designed to be approachable and low-intimidation — adjustable bar lengths let you start conservatively and work up gradually, and the swivel cuffs ensure the restrained partner never feels painfully locked in place. It rewards clear communication and a slow, exploratory pace rather than demanding prior experience with restraint play.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003ch2\u003eWho is this product for?\u003c\/h2\u003e\u003cul\u003e\n\u003cli\u003e\n\u003cstrong\u003eBeginners exploring BDSM or restraint play:\u003c\/strong\u003e Easy to operate, not intimidating, and ideal for a first step into positional control.\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003e\n\u003cstrong\u003eCouples wanting enhanced position control:\u003c\/strong\u003e Keeps a partner open and accessible for deeper, more direct stimulation without constant manual effort.\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003e\n\u003cstrong\u003eFans of dominant\/submissive dynamics:\u003c\/strong\u003e Provides a body-safe, non-extreme way to incorporate submission and control into scenes.\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003e\n\u003cstrong\u003ePeople who enjoy roleplay scenarios:\u003c\/strong\u003e The adjustable bars and support strap make it easy to set up a variety of themed restraint positions.\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003e\n\u003cstrong\u003eAnyone seeking lower-effort positioning tools:\u003c\/strong\u003e The bars hold position independently, freeing both partners' hands during play.\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003c\/ul\u003e\u003ch2\u003eHow to use the Spread 'Em Bar \u0026amp; Cuff Set?\u003c\/h2\u003e\u003col\u003e\n\u003cli\u003eUnpack all components from the carrying case and lay them out so everything is within easy reach.\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003eAdjust each bar to the desired length and lock it in place using the provided locking mechanisms — start shorter than you think you need.\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003eSecure the cuffs around wrists and ankles, lining them up comfortably against the skin and fastening without over-tightening; you should be able to slip one finger underneath each cuff.\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003eAttach the nylon support strap if you want to explore elevated or angled positioning options such as lightweight vertical restraint.\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003e\n\u003cstrong\u003eComfort checkpoint:\u003c\/strong\u003e Before beginning play, check circulation, ask your partner to confirm the restraint feels safe, and confirm your agreed safeword is clear.\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003eExplore positions — doggy style with wider ankle spread, missionary with wrists and ankles raised, or a kneeling spread with bars positioned in front of and behind the knees.\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003e\n\u003cstrong\u003eStop\/release step:\u003c\/strong\u003e At any point, unfasten the buckles on the cuffs to release. Position cuffs so the wearer or their partner can always reach them; never leave a restrained person alone.\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003c\/ol\u003e\u003ch2\u003eTechniques \u0026amp; ways to play\u003c\/h2\u003e\u003cul\u003e\n\u003cli\u003e\n\u003cstrong\u003eSolo exploration:\u003c\/strong\u003e Try the set alone first to find comfortable bar lengths, test the stretch range, and familiarise yourself with the buckle mechanisms before partnered use.\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003e\n\u003cstrong\u003eDoggy-style spread:\u003c\/strong\u003e Attach ankle cuffs to the bar for a wider stance, increasing access and depth during rear-entry penetration.\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003e\n\u003cstrong\u003eMissionary hold:\u003c\/strong\u003e Use both the wrist and ankle cuffs simultaneously to pin the restrained partner open and elevate vulnerability for the active partner.\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003e\n\u003cstrong\u003eKneeling spread:\u003c\/strong\u003e Position the bar parallel to the knees to hold an open-legged kneeling posture, ideal for oral play or penetration from behind.\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003e\n\u003cstrong\u003eSensory layering:\u003c\/strong\u003e Combine with a blindfold so the restrained partner cannot anticipate touch, heightening every sensation.\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003e\n\u003cstrong\u003eDom\/sub dynamic:\u003c\/strong\u003e The dominant partner controls bar length and cuff placement, while the submissive communicates comfort. Negotiate limits and establish a safeword before any restraint is applied, and escalate only with explicit ongoing consent.\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003c\/ul\u003e\u003ch2\u003ePairs well with \/ Complete the scene\u003c\/h2\u003e\u003cul\u003e\n\u003cli\u003e\n\u003cstrong\u003eBlindfold or sensory mask:\u003c\/strong\u003e Heightens anticipation when the restrained partner cannot see what comes next.\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003e\n\u003cstrong\u003eMassage candles or massage oil:\u003c\/strong\u003e Perfect for extended sensory scenes while your partner is held open and still.\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003e\n\u003cstrong\u003eQuality personal lubricant:\u003c\/strong\u003e Recommended when spreading restraints are used during penetrative play to reduce friction — compatible with all lube types.\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003e\n\u003cstrong\u003eSoft pillow or positioning wedge:\u003c\/strong\u003e Place under hips for comfort and improved angle during bar play.\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003e\n\u003cstrong\u003eRestraint \u0026amp; Bondage collection\u003c\/strong\u003e and \u003cstrong\u003eBDSM Starter Sets collection\u003c\/strong\u003e for complementary gear.\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003c\/ul\u003e\u003ch2\u003eHow to clean and care\u003c\/h2\u003e\u003cul\u003e\n\u003cli\u003e\n\u003cstrong\u003eMetal bars:\u003c\/strong\u003e Wipe down with warm water and mild soap or a dedicated toy cleaner; dry immediately to prevent any surface oxidation.\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003e\n\u003cstrong\u003eNylon straps:\u003c\/strong\u003e Hand-wash with warm water and mild soap; rinse thoroughly.\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003e\n\u003cstrong\u003eCushioned cuffs:\u003c\/strong\u003e Wipe with a cloth dampened with antibacterial toy cleaner; avoid saturating the padding.\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003e\n\u003cstrong\u003eDrying:\u003c\/strong\u003e Allow all components — especially the cuffs and nylon parts — to air dry completely before storing to prevent mould or odour.\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003e\n\u003cstrong\u003eLubricant compatibility:\u003c\/strong\u003e Safe for use with water-based, silicone-based, and oil-based lubricants; lube contact with the bars and straps is generally minimal.\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003e\n\u003cstrong\u003eStorage:\u003c\/strong\u003e Store in the included carrying case in a cool, dry place. Do not cram into a drawer — this can bend or warp the metal bars over time.\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003c\/ul\u003e\u003ch2\u003eAdditional information\u003c\/h2\u003e\u003cul\u003e\n\u003cli\u003e\n\u003cstrong\u003eVersatility:\u003c\/strong\u003e Adaptable for front, back, and kneeling positions, making it a flexible addition to a wide range of scenes.\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003e\n\u003cstrong\u003eHands-free positioning:\u003c\/strong\u003e The bars maintain the spread position independently, reducing physical effort for the active partner.\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003e\n\u003cstrong\u003eStimulation enhancement:\u003c\/strong\u003e By holding the body open, the set improves access to erogenous zones for oral, manual, or penetrative stimulation.\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003e\n\u003cstrong\u003eAccessibility:\u003c\/strong\u003e Lower grip-strength requirement during use compared to manual restraint; buckles may require some dexterity — a partner can assist if needed.\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003e\n\u003cstrong\u003ePortability:\u003c\/strong\u003e The included carrying case makes the set easy to travel with discreetly.\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003c\/ul\u003e\u003ch2\u003eSpecial considerations \/ warnings\u003c\/h2\u003e\u003cul\u003e\n\u003cli\u003e\n\u003cstrong\u003eMobility:\u003c\/strong\u003e Use requires the ability to spread and hold limbs in position for short periods; do not force a range of motion that causes pain.\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003e\n\u003cstrong\u003eBar length:\u003c\/strong\u003e Adjust bar length conservatively — setting the spread too wide too quickly can strain hip and knee joints. Increase length gradually over sessions.\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003e\n\u003cstrong\u003eCirculation checks:\u003c\/strong\u003e Check regularly that cuffs are not restricting blood flow; release immediately if numbness, tingling, or discolouration occurs.\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003e\n\u003cstrong\u003eNever leave unattended:\u003c\/strong\u003e Always keep a restrained partner within reach and sight; ensure they can be released quickly at any time.\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003e\n\u003cstrong\u003eSupport strap use:\u003c\/strong\u003e The nylon support strap is suitable for lightweight positional use only — it is not rated for full body-weight suspension.\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003e\n\u003cstrong\u003eDexterity:\u003c\/strong\u003e Users should be able to operate buckles and swivel clips, or have a partner present who can do so.\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003e\n\u003cstrong\u003eSafeword:\u003c\/strong\u003e Agree on a clear safeword or safe signal before every session, and stop play immediately if it is used.\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003e\n\u003cstrong\u003eSensitive skin:\u003c\/strong\u003e Line the inside of cuffs with a soft cloth if skin marks easily or is particularly sensitive.\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003c\/ul\u003e\u003cp\u003e18+ only. 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