{"product_id":"come-as-you-arent-roleplaying-game","title":"Come As You Aren't Roleplaying Game","description":"\u003cp\u003eCome As You Aren't is a playful, flirtation-fuelled role-playing game designed to spark curiosity, push boundaries, and bring spontaneous adventure into any bedroom. Couples randomly select a \u003cstrong\u003eWho\u003c\/strong\u003e, a \u003cstrong\u003eWhat\u003c\/strong\u003e, and a \u003cstrong\u003eWhere\u003c\/strong\u003e from the included card decks, then bring their improvised scene to life however they choose. The kit includes 90 prompt cards split across those three categories, plus blank cards so you can write your own wild twists. Cards can be drawn together for a shared challenge or slipped into the included envelope so one partner delivers a surprise scenario. The whole deck ships in a hardcover slipcase measuring \u003cstrong\u003e3.8 × 1.8 × 5.63 inches\u003c\/strong\u003e, with the rules printed right on the back—no separate booklet needed. Easy to learn, endlessly replayable, and equally at home as a giggly icebreaker or a slow-burn foreplay ritual.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003ch2\u003eCome As You Aren't Roleplaying Game features:\u003c\/h2\u003e\u003cul\u003e\n\u003cli\u003e90 prompt cards covering Who, What, and Where categories\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003eBlank cards included for fully customisable scenarios\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003eSturdy envelope for secret, surprise-scenario handoff\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003eHardcover slipcase packaging with rules printed on the reverse\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003eSimple gameplay for immediate roleplay setup—no long learning curve\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003eGender-neutral, orientation-flexible prompts\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003eDesigned to inspire intimacy, creativity, and laughter\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003c\/ul\u003e\u003ch2\u003eSpecifications \/ Size \u0026amp; material\u003c\/h2\u003e\u003cul\u003e\n\u003cli\u003e\n\u003cstrong\u003eDimensions:\u003c\/strong\u003e 3.8 × 1.8 × 5.63 in\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003e\n\u003cstrong\u003eIncludes:\u003c\/strong\u003e 90 prompt cards (Who, What, Where), blank customisation cards, sturdy envelope\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003e\n\u003cstrong\u003ePackaging:\u003c\/strong\u003e Hardcover slipcase with printed instructions\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003e\n\u003cstrong\u003eMaterial:\u003c\/strong\u003e Paper-based card stock\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003e\n\u003cstrong\u003eBrand:\u003c\/strong\u003e Nalpac\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003e\n\u003cstrong\u003ePrice:\u003c\/strong\u003e $19.80\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003c\/ul\u003e\u003ch2\u003eIntensity \u0026amp; Experience Level\u003c\/h2\u003e\u003cp\u003e\u003cstrong\u003eLevel:\u003c\/strong\u003e Beginner  |  \u003cstrong\u003eSensation tag:\u003c\/strong\u003e Sensory \/ imaginative play\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eCome As You Aren't is as low-pressure as games get—prompts are starting points, not rules, and any card can be skipped or re-drawn without disrupting the fun. It asks for creativity and a willingness to be a little theatrical, but zero experience with roleplay is required to enjoy it straight out of the box.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003ch2\u003eWho is this product for?\u003c\/h2\u003e\u003cul\u003e\n\u003cli\u003e\n\u003cstrong\u003eCouples craving spontaneity:\u003c\/strong\u003e partners who want to break routine and inject fresh excitement without a complicated setup.\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003e\n\u003cstrong\u003eFantasy lovers:\u003c\/strong\u003e anyone intrigued by stepping into different personas, taboo encounters, or fictional scenarios.\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003e\n\u003cstrong\u003eNewlyweds or long-term partners:\u003c\/strong\u003e those who want a low-pressure, playful way to build intimacy and open creative communication.\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003e\n\u003cstrong\u003eShy or hesitant partners:\u003c\/strong\u003e people who find it easier to start conversations about desires when a fun prompt does the heavy lifting.\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003e\n\u003cstrong\u003eCouples seeking non-penetrative intimacy:\u003c\/strong\u003e partners who want erotic connection that doesn't require physical sex.\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003c\/ul\u003e\u003ch2\u003eHow to use the Come As You Aren't Roleplaying Game?\u003c\/h2\u003e\u003col\u003e\n\u003cli\u003eUnwrap the deck and separate the cards into three face-down piles: Who, What, and Where.\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003eDraw one card from each pile—either together or have one partner draw and tuck all three into the envelope for a surprise reveal.\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003eRead your prompts aloud and take a moment to imagine your character's personality, their desire, and how the scene begins.\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003eDress up or gather props if you like—improvisation works just as well and is totally encouraged.\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003e\n\u003cstrong\u003eComfort checkpoint:\u003c\/strong\u003e before diving in, check that both partners are happy with the scenario; 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