{"product_id":"bdsm-contract-copy","title":"101 Kinky Things Even You Can Do","description":"\u003cp\u003e\u003cem\u003e101 Kinky Things Even You Can Do\u003c\/em\u003e by sex journalist and educator Kate Sloan is a comprehensive yet approachable paperback guide to kink and BDSM that strips away the intimidation and replaces it with wit, warmth, and genuine insight. Spanning 248 pages across a handy 5.5 x 8.2-inch format, the book walks readers through 101 accessible, inclusive kinky activities — from the delightfully low-key to the deliciously adventurous — all presented in Sloan's signature bold, sex-positive prose. Playful illustrations accompany the text throughout, supporting both learning and imagination. Most activities require no special gear whatsoever, and gender-inclusive language ensures every reader feels seen, whatever their body or identity. Whether you crack it open solo with a highlighter in hand or read passages aloud across the bed with a partner, this book doubles as both a reference guide and a piece of foreplay in its own right.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003ch2\u003e101 Kinky Things Even You Can Do features:\u003c\/h2\u003e\u003cul\u003e\n\u003cli\u003eComprehensive yet approachable guide to kink and BDSM topics\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003eWritten by acclaimed sex journalist and educator Kate Sloan\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003eCovers 101 accessible and inclusive kinky activities\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003eIncludes playful illustrations to support learning and exploration\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003eEmpowers readers to explore kink with or without a partner\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003eWitty, sex-positive writing that is both educational and entertaining\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003eGender-inclusive language welcoming to all bodies and identities\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003ePrinted paperback format with 248 informative pages\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003c\/ul\u003e\u003ch2\u003eSpecifications \/ Size \u0026amp; material\u003c\/h2\u003e\u003cul\u003e\n\u003cli\u003e\n\u003cstrong\u003eFormat:\u003c\/strong\u003e Paperback\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003e\n\u003cstrong\u003ePage count:\u003c\/strong\u003e 248 pages\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003e\n\u003cstrong\u003eDimensions:\u003c\/strong\u003e 5.5 x 8.2 inches (approx.)\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003e\n\u003cstrong\u003eWeight:\u003c\/strong\u003e ~14.4 oz\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003e\n\u003cstrong\u003eMaterial:\u003c\/strong\u003e Paper book with matte cover finish\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003c\/ul\u003e\u003ch2\u003eIntensity \u0026amp; Experience Level\u003c\/h2\u003e\u003cp\u003e\u003cstrong\u003eLevel:\u003c\/strong\u003e Beginner  |  \u003cstrong\u003eSensation tag:\u003c\/strong\u003e Curiosity \/ mental stimulation\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eThis book is deliberately low-pressure and forgiving — activities are presented with options for personalisation and scaled intensity, so readers can start wherever they feel comfortable and build at their own pace. No prior kink knowledge or special equipment is required to get genuine value from every page.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003ch2\u003eWho is this product for?\u003c\/h2\u003e\u003cul\u003e\n\u003cli\u003e\n\u003cstrong\u003eCurious beginners:\u003c\/strong\u003e Anyone wanting to explore BDSM and kink for the first time without intimidation or jargon overload.\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003e\n\u003cstrong\u003eCouples seeking inspiration:\u003c\/strong\u003e Partners looking for creative, low-pressure ideas to spice up their shared sex lives.\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003e\n\u003cstrong\u003eSolo adventurers:\u003c\/strong\u003e Individuals pursuing pleasure, self-discovery, and imaginative exploration on their own terms.\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003e\n\u003cstrong\u003eKink educators and sex-positive gift givers:\u003c\/strong\u003e A fun, inclusive choice for workshops, gift bags, or introducing a friend to the world of consensual kink.\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003e\n\u003cstrong\u003eExperienced players expanding their repertoire:\u003c\/strong\u003e Even those already familiar with BDSM will find fresh angles, activity variations, and inclusive perspectives throughout.\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003c\/ul\u003e\u003ch2\u003eHow to use the 101 Kinky Things Even You Can Do?\u003c\/h2\u003e\u003col\u003e\n\u003cli\u003e\n\u003cstrong\u003eRead at your own pace:\u003c\/strong\u003e Start from the beginning for a structured introduction, or flip freely to whatever topic sparks your curiosity first.\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003e\n\u003cstrong\u003eMark what excites you:\u003c\/strong\u003e Use a highlighter, sticky tabs, or a notebook to capture ideas you want to revisit or try.\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003e\n\u003cstrong\u003eChoose an accessible starting point:\u003c\/strong\u003e Pick an activity that feels exciting and realistic for your current comfort level — no pressure to leap to the deep end.\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003e\n\u003cstrong\u003eComfort checkpoint:\u003c\/strong\u003e Before involving a partner, check in with yourself about boundaries, desires, and any questions the book has raised for you.\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003e\n\u003cstrong\u003eCommunicate with partners:\u003c\/strong\u003e Share passages, talk through what you found interesting, and agree on what you would like to explore together — and what is off the table.\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003e\n\u003cstrong\u003eTry it solo or together:\u003c\/strong\u003e Explore the suggested activity in whatever way suits your desire, comfort, and the nature of the kink described.\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003e\n\u003cstrong\u003eStop or pause anytime:\u003c\/strong\u003e If an activity does not feel right in practice, it is completely fine to set it aside. 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